howdy all,i have an embarrasing problem. i just started dating this gorgeous girl. we tend to get affectionate; i.e, cuddles, hugs, kissing, etc, etc. However, everytime around her, i tend to get erections extremely easy, and take me a ages for it to soften up. it is pretty hard to walk around as i have a stiffy. I try to relax; hoping to reduce the bloodflow. However, it's time consuming for it to return to the normal state. Is there anything i can do??
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Embarassing problem, suggestions please.
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Enjoy it.
If it's hard to walk, adjust and point it up so it doesn't move when you walk.
That's my advice.
EDIT: and it isn't a big horrible problem. It's called being a guy. It doesn't go away.
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It isn't embaressing. Girls are just lucky that their nipples don't come out and poke someone in the eye. I still easily get turned on by my fiance and get an erection like instantly. Just a quick pull up of the wood like RainNightBlue said will make it hidden for the most part and it will make it a bit more comfortable.
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Originally Posted By: RainNightBlueEnjoy it. ...It isn't a big horrible problem. It's called being a guy. It doesn't go away.you'll learn how to deal with them when they pop up.. I agree.. It's natural.. enjoy it. show it to her and tell her she excites you. RAWR!
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where snug underwear so it they keep it held down a little bit
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And the combination of tight underwear (briefs or boxer-briefs) plus loose trousers gives even better hiding. Better still is a long shirt untucked so it hangs down in front.
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wear baggy t-shirts and when you get one act as normally as possible. look at it this way.. it can go away in a matter of minutes, at least its not a cum stain which you have to hide for the whole day like i had to today
plus, girls like it when guys get hard over them(well, all the girls i know)
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I've had the same problem. I'm 16 years old and I can get huge erections when I'm around all these cute girls at my school (I'm in all honors classes and there's always more girls than boys in the classes it seems, and I'm always hanging out with those girls outside of classes). I just wear khaki pants or jeans. And when I'm walking at school I sometimes hide behind someone or go to the water fountain when i get hard in the hallways.
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honestly, other than out in public i wouldnt worry about it. i cant kiss my gf w/o getting hard (at least a little) and im 21, and between all the dif girls ive been with honestly, if they like you enough to make out with u they wont care, may even like it and grind with u. id relax about it, ull be fine
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Good advice on how to hide it already given. All I can say is "welcome to the world of blue-balls"....you know, the way your nuts ache for the next 4 hours after your date is over. There's something to be said for loose pants, you know.
