im 15 and im turning 16 in march and i have this problem where every time i get around certain girls i get an erection. now with homecoming coming up i know i will be dancing and i know im going to get some erections while dancing. does anybody know how to deal with this because it is quite embarrassing to the point where i am considering not dancing.
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Homecoming dance... oh sh**
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I'm worried about the same thing. I'm 16 years old and I'm 100% sure I'll get these huge erections when I'm around all these cute girls at the dance. Try to dance in areas where the light might be darkened, that way no one will see. Try to dance in an area close to a table or another room. That way, if a boner comes at the wrong time, you can easily sit down or even hide.
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im just worried the girl will feel it while im dancing and be like "What the hell" and back off or leave and itd get all akward.
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Well, hopefully when you're dancing your boner won't be big enough to touch her (unless you dance really close to each other). how big is yours?
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not sure havent really measured but i mean big enough, im pretty sure they could feel it it. most dances at my school are "Grind" fests if u know what that is. and then some slow dancing but not much.
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well girls at my school if i got an erection around the type of girl that i think you are talking about would welll probally just laugh and if it was big big they would give you a hand job rite there or take you out of the dance and well you know
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lol luckily i've never got a boner while grinding..i mean i get turned on but i never actually get one.
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Originally Posted By: deekwell girls at my school if i got an erection around the type of girl that i think you are talking about would welll probally just laugh and if it was big big they would give you a hand job rite there or take you out of the dance and well you know their not really "slutty" girls i mean idk if thats what u mean, just kind of my friends.
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To make it less visible, wear briefs or boxer-briefs under loose black trousers. Don't worry about her feeling it when grinding - the idea of grinding is to turn the guy on and if a girl is going to do it, she's going to be pleased by an erection.
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Originally Posted By: IneligibleTo make it less visible, wear briefs or boxer-briefs under loose black trousers. Don't worry about her feeling it when grinding - the idea of grinding is to turn the guy on and if a girl is going to do it, she's going to be pleased by an erection. good advice thanks
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My girlfriend told me that she personally finds it a turn-on to notice that the boy she is dancing with has an erection going on. She says in a way, it's like a compliment! But she said it has to be boys that she already likes or "are cute". She said if it's some jerk, she wouldn't be dancing with him anyway. I think you definitely want to try to hide it, like with the right underwear. But if while dancing the girl happens to feel it, great!! She'll know you "like her" in more ways than one!!(I get boners ALL THE TIME when I'm dancing. I'm 15.)
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Any girl who would be grinding up against you enough to feel that you had a hardon and be offended is to immature to give any consideration too. It's natural and I assure you, your won't be the only boy there dancing with a stiffy.
Just do like the others in this thread have said and where boxer type underwear to help keep it hidden... or go the other way, be proud and let 'em see the tent in your gabardines. I don't think most women would find that attractive though. :wink: