So one of my real good friends is coming to visit from out of state in November, and recently we've gotten really close, (she visited not that long ago too) and I've got this sinking feeling that she'll want to have sex. Only thing is I'm still a virgin and still unsure about if I want to or not..yet that is.I don't want her to think I don't like her or anything, and if I decide I don't want to, what's the best way to tell her so she'll understand and things won't be awkward?
Tell her that you're practicing abstinence, and that you're not ready to have sex (for the first time)-optional. Nothing wrong with that...
I agree with with ^^^^ said, and add, you don't have to have vaginal sex, to have fun.I recommend making yourself available for other types of fun no-clothing activities, like oral, and whatever you call using your hands...or hand cuffs, and food, or toys...oh the list is endless...That's what I say.Go ahead, do her, you don't have to have sex to have fun