alright, this isn't asking anything really about my pregnancy, its a done deal, i'm keeping it. whatever.My parents have recently found out some stuff i've done in the past that upsets them. I am not proud of these things (stealing, drugs, lying)... And i HAVE STOPPED and will not ever do these things again. thing is, they think i've lied so much that i'm lying about stopping or not restarting. AND they've been constantly bitching at me for the past 2 days. I'm worried that maybe this will cause stress and cause me to have a miscarriage.And if you're one of those fucking idiots who's telling me i'm not mature enough to raise a child and its better off that i do miscarry, fuck you, don't even bother posting, i dont want to hear it. I'm here for POSITIVE help. not people who are here to take my parents side.
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17. Pregnant. Parents.
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You're just going to have to deal with the "bitching" until you regain their trust.. you won't miscarry over this.
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I know i fucked up, honestly.But when my parents expect me & my brother to appologize for something we've done, they dont ever accept it, no matter how deep it is.They always hold grudges.Now my moms saying she wont even help out with my fucking pregnancyI dont have my license, or anything to get to a doctor, what the fuck am i supposed to do?
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Well for your parents bitching there isnt much you can do other than take it. The reality is your 17, pregnant, and under their roof, they can say whatever they want. Whether they choose to believe you or not depends on your actions. If you arent doing any of the bad stuff any more you should earn the trust again over time, but it will take time!As far as not having your license, do you live in a larger town or a smaller town? Can you use public transport? As far as them helping you with the baby, thats also their choice. If my child was having a baby at seventeen i would help them, even though id be furious. I would rather help them through it and try to make life easier for my child and their baby, rather then suffer for their mistake.Maybe they will come around, maybe not. If they dont, your honestly going to have to get a job, and find a baby sitter for your child so you can earn money. I wish you luck and i hope everything works out for you. There is a girl on here that is around your age and she has a child and is doing very well for herself, so there is hope. You just need a strong support system and the will to make it.
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Originally Posted By: sexy1gurlx69
Now my moms saying she wont even help out with my fucking pregnancy
I dont have my license, or anything to get to a doctor, what the fuck am i supposed to do?
I don't know your parents or anything about the situation other than what you've posted here. I will say that people often make those kind of statements in the heat of anger at the new revelation, then as the pregnancy becomes real and the mad abates they go ahead and help anyway.You know 'em better than I but I wouldn't put to much stalk in anything they may be saying right now if this is all new to 'em.
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If your parents are anything like mine and from the way they are talking they are,then they don
t mean anything. My best advice is to ignore and dont get too stressed out cause it CAN interfere with your pregnancy. When i was pregnant with Hosanna i got a lot of crap from my parents,all the 9mnths,and i did end up in the hospital due to overstress(if that is a word). Anyway who spoils my child more than me and am not allowed to yell at her. You are mature enough to look after your child,i had a baby at 15 and am in school at the top of my class so you can do anything you put your mind to.Good luck and all the best to u an your baby,take care of yourself and any advice you might need you can pm me.I`d be happy to help since I was once in your situation.