I've been going out with my bf for about 3 weeks now and I've managed to kiss him about 3 times, but every other time he goes to kiss me I turn my head. I dont know why I do it but it's really starting to bother me and I know that it's starting to bother him too. What can I do to stop myself from turning my head? Its not that I dont want to kiss him cause I do, but I just have a bad habit of turning my head at the wrong moment. Please help!! Additional information;; He is the first guy I've kissed and I think that maybe im scared to stuff it up because I am soo inexperienced
..missing that kiss
It sounds like nervousness. Would it help if you went to kiss him first?
Im scared to go in to kiss him first though. I guess I could try the next time I see him but I really don't want to stuff it up :frowning:
Obviously, you're a bit nervous but all I can say is that kissing is great. I've "been around" as they say and I still love kissing.go for it
Take control. Kiss him ya know he isn't going to push you away.
I remember when I was around fifteen (I think..) my friend had the exact same problem. I remember she kissed her first boyfriend, who was also her first kiss, in September, just as school started; needless to say this was a big deal. However, she couldn't kiss him again for about five months. Ok, she would give him a peck that would last no more than a splitsecond, but, like yourself, she was terrified out of her mind when he started trying. Finally she just went for it, because she got so agitated with herself for not.
So yes, like mentioned in the posts above mine...just do it, don't worry you won't ''stuff it up''! Have fun!
Kissing is like drinking salted water. You drink, and your thirst increases.