My relationship with my best friend is so fucked up at the moment, and I just don't know what to do. I was hoping for some advice, we'll hope someone can help =)So, I'm a 17 year old guy, my best friend is a girl (this probably makes a difference). Anywho, we go to different schools, and I come to her school to bus home with her once or twice a week, just to talk, hang out, that kind of thing. We talk all the time on msn, or the phone. Basically, it's a really close relationship, just that we aren't dating. We're comfortable with each other, and I enjoy that. Emotionally, I'm pretty crippled. My father died when I was 12, and I kind of shut down emotionally after that. I've explained to her that I had behind my jokes, and put on masks of happiness to cover up my depression. She is the first person I told about my long term depression. She wants me to get help, but I don't want to upset my family, so it is being left alone. On to today. I bussed down to her school to bus home with her. She had told me that she didn't need to be home early for once, and that we could hang out for a while. I got to her school, and waited outside for her. I said hello to a few of my other friends that went there as I waited for her. She came outside, gave me a hug, and then realized she forgot something in her locker. She went in, while I was talking to another friend of mine waiting for her. She the comes out 5 minutes later with my ex girlfriend (who hasn't talked to me since the breakup). My friend said that they were going to go shopping quickly, and that they'd be back in 15 minutes. So, I waited at the school for her. I talked to a good friend until he had to go, and then waited outside by myself for a bit. 30 minutes later, I decided to call her. No answer. I yet again called her. No answer. I then ran into an old friend, and waited with her for her bus. I then walked back to the school, and she wasn't there. So, I called her again. No answer. I decided "fuck it" and began walking towards my bus stop 15 minutes away. I didn't come to wait for her while she went shopping with someone else. I found this pretty rude of her and was severely pissed off. Halfway to my bus stop, I got a call from her. She asked me where I was. I told her I was going to the bus stop, and didn't want to sit around and wait for her. I told her it was a dick move. I took an hour out of my day to get there, only to wait another hour for her. She was upset. I ended up stopping and waiting for her to catch up with me. She told me she was sorry, but I really don't get over things easily. I told her I was upset with her, and explained why. She then got angry with me, saying that I was overreacting. So, we hung out for a little bit that night, her, me, and another friend. They get along very well. I felt like an outcast because of my anger, and how she only looked at me sadly. I walked her to her home, said goodbye, and then walked home to think things over.Later, I came on msn, and was talking to her. She asked me if I was still angry. At this point, I was still angry, and I told her that. She then began to yell at me about how I needed to lighten up, and that things were really hard right now. She said another friend was right about me, and then abruptly left. I have no idea what she was talking about, but she wouldn't respond to texts or phone calls after that. I have no idea why she is angry at me. Shouldn't I be the one angry at her? I don't know why this is bothering me so much, but it really is, and I feel that I have nobody to go to.
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My best friend and I....
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Hopefully she comes to her senses and realizes that she was being a jerk.She shouldnt have ditched you.
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Maybe she was just being a teensy tiny bit hormonal. Give her a few days, you guys seem really close, so you should work it out. smiles
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We'll hope. I called her tonight. She just said "I don't want to talk to you right now" and hung up. It's really upsetting, hopefully she'll be over it for the weekend, since we had some fun plans... Maybe I can talk to her about it then.