I have to just let it all out & say it all in one post. So As you guys all know I hateeeee my vagina.#1 My inner labia lips are huge && so uglyy && just nott normall! #2 my vagina has a bitter smell to it && I kinda figured out it smells something like B-O. Grosss! && one of the reasons I stay a virgin is because im not comfortable letting a guy see or touch my vagina. Its just veryyy embaressing to mee. On top of that, Id lovee to get Labia surgery to reduce the size, but of course i dont want to tell anyone in my family i have a big labia, thats so embaressing && im 16 && not knowing what age you have to be to get genital surgeryy.. sooo Do I just wait till im 18( 2 years) to get the surgery on my own && pay for it all myself.? && how do i get rid of the smell.. Normally it wont smell was bad as the day i shave all nice but its the days after when im not freshly shaved it starts so smelll , kinda. && yes i take a shower everyy day! But pleasee HELPP. I need all my questionss answerdThanks. =)
I need to just tell you guys
Your still at it? look ma. honestly big labias arent bad! you may not like the look of it. but my girl feels tha same way, idk why i dont pay attention to her preaching bout her insecurities, cause i know that shes beautiful...
but yea, YOU may think it smells bad, but others might not. these are just your insecurity's. if some dude says, AY GIRL YA PUSSY STANKS!, then u got somethin to worry about. and even then he's insignificant when you consider the billions of men on this earth.
big labias are good, because of those big ole lips, they wrap snuggly around big cocks. they feel great, plus it makes it more cushion for us to go deeper and harder.
BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE!!!
if your still so insecure, gimme your damn address, i will visit your house, and PERSONALLY TELL YOU THAT YOUR BEAUTIFUL!
i hate to see a girl who beats herself up, because of all this commercial bullshit...
You could never take away my shine,
Cause I got it engraved in my right,
Where ever I go, man it goes too,
Sometimes it lags but always keep pace too,
Pursue to areas typically unvisited,
Where children snort coke, and smoke cigarettes,
And adults were diapers, and drink from bottles,
And only fat girls wit pimples can be models,
Where they look atta women's personality,
Instead of her double d's, lyrically speaking,
Rappers witta minimal vocabulary,
Get hung from trees dangling tragically,
But we just sigh, walk past,
Continue our stride, sigh or laugh,
It makes no difference in dis community,
What matters to us, is whether or not,
You could support revolutionary thinking,
as you can see, once u mature, you realize its not about how someone looks, its about, WHO SOMEONE IS.
as far as smells, it could just be a case of finding the right kind of soap/body wash that agrees with your chemistry.Now, lips... I love big ones. Trust me, I've been up close and personal with a LOT of them. I was with this lady 2 years ago, we hit bed after the date and was I ever pleased with her body. She got up on me and had to reach down and manually get her beautiful big pink lips around me. So hot!
I agree with GrownPastMyYears and Mr. "U". There are a lot of men out there who love larger lips on their women. It's like girls liking bigger dicks...I would say a lot of your problems has to do with your age and all of the changes your body is going thru. these could be causing the smell,It happens to guys too. To be really honest... Some guys can get some pretty nasty sticky balls and crotch. It happens to both sexesaccept what you have until you get older and keep it clean and I'm sure you will start to like it. However, if you did elect to have the surgery, you would have to wait until you were 18 to sign then medical consent forms to have a reduction. it's quite expensive. but it's done on an out patient basis usually and nobody will have to know except you and your doctor.But I bet if you asked your mom or sister about large lips,they would most likely have the same thing. of know how to discuss it. Mom's are good about talking about the girls things.. it's what Mom's do. It might be an embarrasing subject for your,but I'll bet she'll explain your optionskeep us posted. and relax. Big lips are like big dicks. some people have them and they are sure fun to play with!
Haha alright everytime u guys cheer me up && say positive things, the more i get used too it. soo thankss =)
The fact that you're so worried about what other people might think of your vagina means you're not ready for sex. When you're with someone who cares about you, they honestly will not give a rats ass about how your vagina smells. Vaginas (like dicks) have an odor because they're sandwiched in between two legs. Its gets hot and sweaty down there, and when sweat builds up and doesn't evaporate, things tend to get a little bitter/sour. Think about armpits, for example. Sandwiched between your arm and your torso, they tend to get a little nasté if they don't get some air.As for your labia, lemme tell you, in high school, guys don't know shit about vaginas. Some of the tightest ones I've been in (and there have been quite a few, as I am a bit of a male slut) have had some large lips attached. Lippage has nothing to do with width or the vaginal canal (nor length).So please. Wait till you're AT LEAST 25 and had some experience with guys (and/or girls) and had a chance to accept yourself for who you are before you go around begging for labiaplasty. What a shame.Notice that the only thing stopping you from getting laid is your own self-confidence. This is NOT somehting that can be healed by labiaplasty -- it is something you get when you accept your own body for what it is. YOU should judge your body as beautiful. Just resign yourself to NATURE. It is the most beautiful thing.
As a girl with large inner labia as well, I completely sympathize. However, I'm now 19 and have been intimate with a handful of people. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and he doesnt mind my vagina at all. He knows im self conscious about it but he just tells me its completely normal and im sexy anyways. But before being with him, all i ever thought about was what guys would think as soon as they noticed. and seriously....THEY DONT CARE...or...they love it. its weird i know. i still dont get it. but as long as you dont care...no one else will. just try to accept it. After you have sex with someone it becomes a lot easier. i have totally thought about getting surgery though and i might do that within the next five years. You probably want to get it now because you're worried about others will think. Well for me...now its more somthing i want to do for myself. I'm a volleyball player and i love to go to the beach....and I'd rather just be normal down there considering all the spandex and bathing suits i wear. bottom line...dont forget that your not alone and there are thousands of girls with the same problem. if you want to get surgery later on in life...then go right ahead. but for now dont be afraid to go out there and have some fun. dont let your labia get in the way of getting some action
Well I just thought I'd add that all vaginas are ugly! Really...is there even a such thing as a pretty vagina? In the words of Wanda Sykes, 'Vagina have a face made for radio.' If you stop and really think about it, vaginas are weird looking. They're just flaps of skin and fat just hanging around.... I think my vagina is ugly too and my smaller lips hang out. I wouldn't have surgery, I'd rather spend the money on a car or something more "valuable"...it's just hopeless, vaginas are ugly anyway. Oh! If you're washing with harsh soaps, it may effect the odor of your vagina. I don't think your vagina should stink, but it's not naturally going to smell like roses. I've noticed mine has the same unadulterated smell as my armpits when I sweat just a little, but not stinky.
Dont worry about it at all. We dont care.In the scent department, if it something more that just a body odor, if you personally think it in the range of abnormal perhaps you have some sort of mild or persistent infection? Have mom schedule an OBGYN appointment and bring it up with doctor and see what your options are