Sex Question

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Hi, I have a question about sex, i have been a viewer of these boards and thought i had read the answer sumwhere before but havent been able to find it. Im sure its sumwhere obvious but yeah...anyways i am uncut. i recently had sex with my girlfriend for the first time. i felt a little pleasure but it really was nothing at all what i thought. i must have done sumthing wrong with putting the condom on. i pulled my 4skin back before putting the condom on, and then rolled the condom on. maybe i didnt pull it back far enough? idk. but my skin had rolled back up during sex. so idk what the deal is. should we try it where i dont pull the 4skin back? i can pull it down pretty far when i am hard, if anyone was wondering. i just need help and know this is the place to go. so thanks =)

Welcome to A2A posting, air23!It is usual to pull the foreskin back before putting the condom on. Perhaps the condom was a bit loose around the head? You can't pull the condom on too tight, though, because there needs to be room for the ejaculate. If the condom was a little loose overall you might find it feels better with a slimmer one, but apart from that I'm not sure there's much you can do. Without a condom the foreskin usually moves back and forth over the head during sex, but condoms do tend to make that difficult.

thanks

i will try the slimmer ones

Thats because condoms suck. It probably doesnt have anything to do with your foreskin. I'd recommend convincing you're girlfriend to get on birth control

Want to know why your wrong?The pill si not the be all end all of contraception, my wife got pregnant 2 times, count em twice, while following the entire guidelines and rules of taking them.Second, while they do aid in preventing pregnancy, they do nothing in aiding or protecting against the spread of STD.Its a good choice for a girl in a dedicated relationship of long term and trust, but its the shits for a slut who bangs random guys she meets in chat rooms on myspace.Pills, in less long term relationships, should be backed up with a rubber.

we did it again...in the back of the car.still not much out of it. it was really hard doing it in a small backseat though. we are just gunna need to try diff things till sumthing works i guess. which is very frustrating becuz im not very patient lol. its fine i guess...she enjoys the sex, she just doesnt like that im not gettn off from it...bothers me too of course lol but we will just have to keep having fun tryn new things =)

Is there anyway you can find a place to do it that is more conducive to the act. Some place that you both can take your time and build up to it and don't have to hurry or worry about getting caught, not to mention be comfortable. Don't get me wrong car sex is great but if your cramped up in a tiny car without room to maneuver it'll take away from the mood and make getting off more difficult.

Originally Posted By: derkaderkThats because condoms suck. It probably doesnt have anything to do with your foreskin. I'd recommend convincing you're girlfriend to get on birth control WRONG! i had two kids using the birth control pill, its NOT 100% affective AND doesn't protect you from other stuff......DONT leave it down to the girl, be a man and use something.

yeah, we just did it in the car cause at the time we had no place else to go. but yes we do have a i guess "safe" place to do it. we are either going to do it this weekend or the next so we shall see what happens.

Originally Posted By: ~AngelWitch~ Originally Posted By: derkaderkThats because condoms suck. It probably doesnt have anything to do with your foreskin. I'd recommend convincing you're girlfriend to get on birth control WRONG! i had two kids using the birth control pill, its NOT 100% affective AND doesn't protect you from other stuff......DONT leave it down to the girl, be a man and use something. We've been having sex for 6 months with the pill and everything is fine so far, not to mention the sex is way better then it was before. I have plenty of friends that are also in long term relationships that rely on the pill and everything is fine.

yes, well that's because by the hair on their chinny chin chins, it works, lol, it's not THAT bad, but coupled with condoms, it's 198/200%, which is alot better, nearly impossible, and as for you, that's because your both clean, and it's worked.but theres always that 1/100 chance...Im with Angel on this one.

But each time you have sex it's a new role of the dice and your number may be up. It's one thing, not using a condom, if you have means to care for and support a kid. It's quite another if it's gonna wreck your life.There are tons of people who have gotten pregnant while on the pill just because you don't know any of 'em first hand doesn't mean it won't happen to you. Hell, you may be the one of your little circle of friends that prove the pill isn't 100% effective.Are you ready for a kid?Can you support a kid?Are you committed to this girl enough to want to share a child with her?How would she be to deal with in the event you two had a kid and didn't stay together?Is it really worth taking the risk?If you want to have cum without a condom, fuck, use her mouth, titty fuck, go spelunking... just stay out of the honey hole unless your wearing some protection.

Originally Posted By: air23I am intact. I recently had sex with my girlfriend for the first time. I must have done something wrong with putting the condom on. I pulled my 4skin back before putting the condom on, and then rolled the condom on. My skin rolled back during sex. Should we try it where I don't pull the 4skin back? I can pull it down pretty far when I am hard. I just need help and know this is the place to go. so thanks =) Air ... Ineligible is correct ... the foreskin is designed to move back and forth during intercourse. Some men retract the foreskin, then slip on a condom, but let the foreskin AND the condom return over the glans, before pulling the rest of the condom down over the shaft. That allows the foreskin to move freely during intercourse.It's not quite normal to have the foreskin permanently splayed back, along the shaft, during intercourse. Nor during masturbation, for that matter. You want the foreskin to move rhymically back and forth over the glans, which action is highly pleasurable, as the nerves in the inner foreskin interact with the nerves in the corona of the glans.Ideally, the vaginal sphincter should push the foreskin off the glans upon entry, then pull the foreskin back over the glans on the outstroke. This maneuver helps conserve vaginal moisture, which helps make intercourse so very pleasurable ... for both the man and the woman.

Originally Posted By: derkaderk

Originally Posted By: ~AngelWitch~

Originally Posted By: derkaderk

Thats because condoms suck. It probably doesnt have anything to do with your foreskin. I'd recommend convincing you're girlfriend to get on birth control :smile:

WRONG! i had two kids using the birth control pill, its NOT 100% affective AND doesn't protect you from other stuff......DONT leave it down to the girl, be a man and use something.

We've been having sex for 6 months with the pill and everything is fine so far, not to mention the sex is way better then it was before. I have plenty of friends that are also in long term relationships that rely on the pill and everything is fine.

You said it........im not saying that things won't continue to be fine, but unless you are able to look after a kid i dont' see why you wouldn't take every precaution to NOT have one......*shrugs*

never wear a condom. it triples ur chances of having lame sex.

... or so you've heard

nah. so i know. sex with a condom is lame. just pic a women who isn't a slut so you won't get an std. then make the bitch go get the shot. that simple.

Just cover your body in saran wrap. Make sure to leave a breathing hole.