I'm not sure if a kissing thread would go here. You'd think after 3 years I'd know...Anyway, so yeah um, I'm 17 and recently [like 5 weeks ago] I had my first kiss with my girlfriend. I'll spare you all the marvelous details of what it was like and get on with my question. So things are a lot easier for me to say than actually do, especially for the first time. Like, when I held her hand for the first time, it took me tremendous courage and a long time to finally just freaking take her hand. I knew she wanted me to but I was afraid. Thank god she was the one who kissed me, I might never had built up the courage to kiss her on my own. ANYWAY, we've kissed a bit since then [maybe like 4 or 5 more times] No making out really yet. The longest I have kissed her is like 5 minutes. It's just slow lovey kissing and just a eensy weensy bit of tongue, like rubbing the tips together. My question is this. How do I get into more kissing with her, and different kisses? I know I'd really like to kiss her longer and do other stuff like french kiss and stuff. I wanna learn other things and who is more perfect than her to do it with? :P Do I just ask, or do, or what? Also where is acceptable to kiss her longer? My house doesn't really work, my mom doesn't mind us kissing, but we can't be in my room alone at my house and I don't wanna just make out publicly at my house. And I don't know about her house. Her parents don't really like me because I love her. They think it's silly. :\ Any help is appreciated. Also I'm terribly sorry for so much text. :[ I know you don't wanna read an essay.
man, just try different things. once you've kissed her you're basically free to try whatever. suck on her bottom lip girls seem to love that, hell I love it when girls do it to me. biting, sucking, and use of the tongue. I wouldn't say I'm a great kisser, but being with an older woman who knows what she is doing has made me feel like one.
Just start putting a little more tongue in it. Explore her lips and neck and ear with your kisses.
Where to do it... go to a movie, a night out at the park, sitting on a darkened front porch. It need not be a bed or back seat.