Ok today we was talking about secrets (bad idea) so i told her my relationship/single secrets, and she was not happy but it was b4 her obviously so she understood past is the past. So it was her turn so she was telling me her mingles and such b4 me, n how she cheated on her ex and blah blah blah. But one stood out like an sore thumb bcuz it had to do with the person i hate so much at my old job, which me and her use to work at b4 i got fired. So she told me b4 we went out and after I got fired, she made out with the guy i dislike i did not mind cuz she with me and not with him. Then i remembered that she told me that he was asking her if she had a boyfriend which he knew that she does and asking her out to the movies and when he get his motorcycle he's going to take her to the beach. I was pissed but i knew he's doing that on purpose bcuz i took the girl he liked in one try and he still have feelings for her. So i told her next time he make any comment tell him that Carlos (me) said don't talk to my girl unless it's job related and I'M HER BOYFRIEND. But I have a feeling i need to make a visit to my old job and visit an old friend of mine LOL bcuz i don't think he won't stop. I need help should I take matter in my own hand with this guy or hopefully my girl will take a stand and tell him to F^&* Off which she did already (but hopefully she will tell him once time to realize she's not playing)
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HELP!!!!
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I've been in a fairly similar situation before.Going to see this guy probably isn't going to go well. It's up to her to tell him to go away now. If you trust her, you will allow her to do this for herself. If you don't trust her, then maybe you should rethink things.If you go to see him, not only will it piss her off because it's something she should do, but it will also let this guy know that you feel threatened by him, and it gives him extra strength.Voice your concerns to your girlfriend. Let her know that she can still have a working relationship with the guy, but that she needs to tell him where his boundaries are and that he needs to respect them.Good luck brah
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Ok today we was talking about secrets (bad idea) so i told her my relationship/single secrets, Yeah.. bad idea.. Usually nothing good comes of that except jealousy or bad feelings.
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If i do go 2 her job she will understand, i told her if he bother u again i'm going to talk 2 him personally and she was not bother @ all cuz she did what she can. If i do get to that stage nothing physical is going to happen (yet), it's going to man 2 man talk. But i hope he will stop he's just mad that i took the girl he liked, and i told her that the reason y he's doing that bcuz of that.