iv been dating this guy on and off for about 3 yrs now and i know this sounds really tipical like something a girl would do but im nt like most girls, i like to fight and hang out with the guys and do crazy stuff.....he says that just makes me an awesome g/f. anywho.... on to my issue. i go through theses phases (i guess) where i dont find him attractive, like i dnt want him to touch me.... like im tired of being his prize possesion. that is most of the reason its been on and off for he past 3 yrs......that and there is this other guy that likes me that is really hot and im stupid.......i just dont want to toy with my b/f but i hate nt being attracted to him sometimes.....
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I guess theyr just phases??
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if you don't love him then why are you with him? you don't have to stay with somebody because its comfortable.. you can be just as comfortable on your own and enjoy meeting new people. who knows mabye that hot guy is more of the man you're looking for. 3yrs is a long time, shit or get off the pot. I say that with love. I've met girls in your situation and only ever been on the end of the spectrum that your other guy is on.. I may be a bit bias, but I hate how the only girls attracted to me are with someone already.
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Perhaps these "phases" are actually signs that something's wrong with your relationship.Take the time to evaluate these "phases" and find out what you really want.
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honestly i want him...... it just seems like we spend to much time together sometimes and it makes me wanna go runnin to someone else
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Originally Posted By: rockedif you don't love him then why are you with him? you don't have to stay with somebody because its comfortable.. you can be just as comfortable on your own and enjoy meeting new people. who knows mabye that hot guy is more of the man you're looking for. 3yrs is a long time, shit or get off the pot. I say that with love. I've met girls in your situation and only ever been on the end of the spectrum that your other guy is on.. I may be a bit bias, but I hate how the only girls attracted to me are with someone already. believe it or not i get what ur sayin... the thing is i DO love him. i think about him all the time, i cant stand to nt talk to him, he trys sooo hard to make me happy all the time...... and even if we did break up for good.... i cant stand to see him with anyone else.....and yes comfortable is a big deal, its almost pathetic how comfortable we r with each other now....thnx