I'm really great mates with this girl, but all of a sudden shes clammed up and wont really tell anyone what's wrong, but i do know somethings up because shes seriously stressed out. Shes really tough normally anyways, and with the shit shes had to deal with since ive known her; friend, family and health problems, i cant believe how strong she is, especially how physically shes drained as well as mentally. But im worried, ive tried to ask her whats up and she flashes a smile (i can tell its fake) and just shakes off the question, she used to be on A2A but doesnt come on here at all anymore, probs because if she did i could see what shes saying; she detests it when people pry and try to give her advice and sort out her problems for her, especially behind her back.But how do i let her know that im here for her?
A friend in need?
Tell her that you are there for her, obviously.Apart from that I don't think there is much you can do until wait for right time when she will tell you. It always seems to come, eventually.
tell her that she doesnt have to be scared to let her feelings out. Let her know that you are there and will listen and not judge.
Friends like you are great to have.