Just found some articles.http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2010/05/12/paint-by-gender-what-color-is-penis/http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Why_is_the_penis_darker_in_color_than_the_bodyhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100224102006AAgV5QLJust like the man in the yahoo article i have similar questions.Recently I found info on a condition called pearly penile papules. but basically they are bumps around the rim on the head of the penis. i actually suffer from this condition, but its not as bad as other cases i have heard of.here is some info and a cliphttp://www.nomorepapules.com/http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ux51mTdfVVgbut i'm glad to see that this is something that man can do if they have the $$$$but it brings up the look of a mans penis. putting aside girth and length, lets focus on the texture of the skin and the color, and even-ness of the color.some of us have ugly circumcision lines, rough-ish ness around the shaft, color patches and so on along with bumps around the rim of the head which are called "pearly penile papules" or just PPP.the only role models i can point to are male porno starts. some of these men who perform with the women are just gifted with length and girth. but most imporant they look very polished all the way to the tip.i would post pics/vids but i don't want to be banned.their scrotum/sac "balls" look very polished, they have smooth looking penis shafts, you can hardly see a circumcision line, (just a slight discoloring of where it was but not thick line) and their penis heads look very polished all around. and they usually don't have the color issue with their penis being a different color than the rest of their bodies.men of today sometimes get electrolysis around on their genitals that is permanent hair removal.but my attitude is this. if women today can get anal bleaching and labiaplasties and other things done to help them.http://www.labiaplastysurgeon.com/labiaplasty-photos.htmlhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhyNZDGs228why can't men get some help with penis color.i would ask some porno stars / companies but i don't know how i would ask, or even if i would get a honest/staight answer on it.but there must be something.
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Penis Color. Is it possible to change or fix?
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I feel the fundamental issue here is self-esteem. If you have high self-esteem you tend to be satisfied with your body, and if you have low self-esteem you tend to be dissatisfied, regardless of what your body is actually like. This happens with penis size: a guy can have a large penis and yet feel inadequate, or a small one and not worry about it. It happens over weight or general appearance, especially for women.And even if something can be done to improve the body, if there isn't an improvement of self-esteem it may do very little. Yes, drastic changes such as removal of facial tumours will make a difference, but ordinary changes often don't, because the underlying attitude hasn't changed.There are skin lightening products available, but their safety in the genital area may be uncertain, and I am not sure they would deal with the fundamental problem of self-esteem. (Note that that article does mention 'genital bleaching', and also anal bleaching, which is apparently used by some porn stars.)
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thank you for your response. at the end of the day you are correct in theory. and i appreciate what you are saying. thank you. i'm a unfortunate byproduct of my harsh upbringing.growing up i home-school and church was a battle ground where men and women compete with each other (old and young) and when a woman/young girl wanted to get under your skin - what would she do? she would say things like "i only date the cutest guys and i always get my way! men and their ugly penis'"i lived in an environment that was and still is very competitive socially. i realize that fiction is not always reality but when we look at the tv what do we see. Putting aside cartoons, sci-fi action, horror motives and comedy. we see news shows, documentaries and soap operas. sometimes art imitates life. the cw netowrk, cinemax soap operas and even pornography. the day time soap operas and movies and mainstream entertainment media feature beautiful people. while this may not be an accurate reflection of what people are looking like - it is a reflection of what they want and what they wish they could be. so when we take down to the averagae person level. it creates a very competitive dating scene at night clubs and in other settings.Too many men and women don't feel attractive enough to be desirable. Women fantasize about male models who they wish were Nice guys with long pretty penises' instead of men who are selfish pigs and men wish they could meet a woman who looks like a porno actress but has the personality of mother theresa. that's the fact. not all people are like this but TOO MANY are.i now see that the looks issue is much harder on women than it is men. a woman has a shelf life. but what i think we are seeing is men are realizing they need to step up their game too. here is another article i found.http://medspaum.com/genitalanallightening.htmlits a relative to the culture a person is raised. so i agree with the self-esteem issue. you are right. recently i got a spam mail for nude beach in france in my e-mail. it shows people walking arund naked on the beach. atleast for the men. i saw men with pot bellies and micro-sized rough-ish small dark ugly penises' who aren't shaved. but yet in that culture those types of looks standards that exist here int eh USA don't exist. so i agree with you. but if these types of men lived here in the USA they would be laughed at! that is a fact.http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_k07pirzBU34/S7cfNlTyCTI/AAAAAAAAENs/b5PWC1H7gnI/s400/SMALL_PENIS.jpgi'm actually glad that penis exercises exist as well. something called jelq and kegel exercises can help too. my overall goal is to get the PPP laser surgery done. continue to do jelq exercises mainly to improve my flacid length and get my erection to be sraighter, and when i can afford it, get professional electrolysis done on my genitals (my butt crack and crotch area) to give my genital area a smoother look. so that just leaves the color and texture of my penis. its great to know that a person can imrpove if they have time, $$$ and patience. is far as standards go, i feel like i'm a 7 or a scale from 1-10 as far as penis looks go. i'm not ugly but i'm not pretty either. i'm just pretty average. so being that i was always told that i'm not handsome enough to have friends and dates most of my life, i desire to IMPROVE msyelf. http://cache1.asset-cache.net/xc/9746738...F12EEA9B6A8E6AFand i have in many ways. i'm a bodybuilder. i'm glad that modern day cosmetics, fitness methods and other things allow a man to IMPROVE himself. this type of technologies didn't exist 30 years ago. so i have arrived at a great time history to do what i'm trying to do. i'm greatful!http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http...s:0&tx=68&ty=47
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I'm not sure that TV even shows what people like or want to look like. Most women on TV and films are so heavily made up, for example, that in a real-life setting I think they would seem plastic.
When a woman says "Men and their ugly penises!" she is attacking all men - and is probably, for one reason or another, not interested at the moment in any men. If the same woman says "I only date the cutest guys", it probably means she only has guys for show. You don't want a woman like that! Indeed, you don't want anyone who is trying to put you down.
I really don't think most guys want a woman who looks like a porno actress. I think most, in reality, would prefer the 'girl next door' look. In any case, for both men and women, for a long-term relationship personality is the main criterion.
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I'm not sure that TV even shows what people like or want to look like. Most women on TV and films are so heavily made up, for example, that in a real-life setting I think they would seem plastic.
When a woman says "Men and their ugly penises!" she is attacking all men - and is probably, for one reason or another, not interested at the moment in any men. If the same woman says "I only date the cutest guys", it probably means she only has guys for show. You don't want a woman like that! Indeed, you don't want anyone who is trying to put you down.
I really don't think most guys want a woman who looks like a porno actress. I think most, in reality, would prefer the 'girl next door' look. In any case, for both men and women, for a long-term relationship personality is the main criterion.
i hear what you are saying. And maybe you live in a different social atmosphere-culture than the one that i live in or grew up in. So therfore i respect what you are saying.
basically i lived and still do live in a world where everyone is very vain, shallow, looks and complexion obsessed person.I'm african-american.
In reality i'm like the man you just described as far as what i want out of life. but i have taken so very much emotional abuse over the years that i have emotional scars. i'm 28 now. Awhile ago i decided to take action and i have made SOME progress. I'm like one of those before and after photos people who have made positive changes physically i can see the difference. but i have not achieved all my goals yet.
But i have a long way to go. And i beleive i will make it.
shallow trash talking women-men like this are the kind i live around and grew up around. again i agree that this is just a tv show and fiction is not reality. But human nature shows us time and time again that documentaries-movies-tv shows-soap operas about social issues like age, race, sex and class, looks etc., will always be made and make money because this something people think about/obsess about.
there are diff. level of female beauty. there is ugly, average, there is pretty, then there is EXOTIC. have you ever heard the express "she is a 10" she is a "dime!" what that means is that on a scale from 1-10 she is a +10 exotic woman.
for me i'm around women who are in the 7-8 range who wish they could be the +10 woman on the tv screen. why? well its because they think that if they had that then they would have men fighting over her.
it is a fact that men compete - cock-block each other over sexy women. sometimes men will fear/anticipate competition from other men in the room so many times that man will sabotage or even say things to the pretty woman in the room about the other man without the other one knowing it.
http://i203.photobucket.com/albums/aa189/roomsburg21/Funny%20Pictures/Cock-Block.jpg
women are guilty too, but i beleive there is some psychology behind men fighting over women. take a look at this article
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/06/080602214132.htm
http://images.askmen.com/top_10/dating/1256065904_top-10-cruel-things-women-do-to-men_1.jpg
but the driving force behind it all is LOOKS. "oooh look at that hot honey over there!!!" i know you have heard this before.
for me its about being happy with what i see the mirror mostly and building up a positive self-image. So that when i encounter what i call divas that i feel great. losing nearly 45 pounds and putting on some muscle is only the 1st step. i plan to get really polished from heard to toe, literally.
like i said, i think modern day technology puts men and women in a situation where they can hold their stuff together longer.
and i feel greatful that atleast for a man he can improve his penis if he really wants to - needs to.
me personally i try to avoid scenarios like this but i always get caught in the middle. i don't really go out to party very much and i get jeered by other men for but it really don't have the desire to compete for sexy women because somebody always gets hurt.
Thanx for the input - if i find more useful info, i will make sure i post it here because it may help another man who has to deal with the crap i have to deal with.
thank you for listening!
