i'm in my late twenties and in a deeply committed relationship with my live-in girlfriend. but a few months ago i was masturbating to (straight/girl on guy) internet porn, and accidentally landed on a site with 18-19yo boy's amateur self-shot pics. i found myself even more aroused and have been masturbating to it ever since. i dont understand why this turns me on?! i mean, i would never have sex with a guy; and i dont want to have sex with the guys on this site. it just turns me on and i dont know if somethings wrong with me?! does this mean i might be gay!? should i tell my gf so she dont accidentally catch me?! is there anything wrong with me doing this?! should i stop!?
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WTF?! (gay?!)
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You should tell her, yes.but are you gay? Nah, I doubt that. I'm straight and I used to love watching girl on girl, and even gay porn sometimes. that doesn't mean I'm gay, it just means i'm curious. but you should open up and tell her, yes.
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Originally Posted By: croixi'm in my late twenties and in a deeply committed relationship with my live-in girlfriend. but a few months ago i was masturbating to (straight/girl on guy) internet porn, and accidentally landed on a site with 18-19yo boy's amateur self-shot pics. i found myself even more aroused and have been masturbating to it ever since. i dont understand why this turns me on?! i mean, i would never have sex with a guy; and i dont want to have sex with the guys on this site. it just turns me on and i dont know if somethings wrong with me?! does this mean i might be gay!? should i tell my gf so she dont accidentally catch me?! is there anything wrong with me doing this?! should i stop!? thats why I dont like labeling, you are who you are, why would you give a damn to what others might think?addressing to your "issue", I dont think thats call "gay".some people love to watch porn with rape scene, but it doesn't mean they are a rapist; and if your GF is afriad that you will rape her just because you got turn on by rape scene... well, thats her problem.if watching gay porn excites you the most, why not? maybe when you get tire of it, you will wathch something else.life is short, dont constrain yourself. Do anything that pleasures you.
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Do you think your GF would be OK with your confession that you find looking at young guys turns you on? If you claim you are NOT interested in guys and you GF might have an issue with this, then why would you want to tell her about this?
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I see no purpose in telling her anything. Would you tell her about the new girl at work you were fantasizing about in your head? No, cause its personal and you weren't going to be hitting on the new girl anyway and all telling her would do is upset her (not to mention complicate your life). Masturbation is personal. There's some shit people just don't need to know. They and everyone else may think they may need to know the minutia of thoughts passing through your head but that's horse shit. If your not going to act on it keep your thoughts in your own mind.As for being gay, no.
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I can add nothing to that - I think the same.
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thnx i think i just over analyze things... and for the most part i remember when i did those self-pics at that age thats the real turn-on!you all are great! thanx for the advice.
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Sexuality is far, far more complicated than gay or straight, or even bi. You might just be a straight man with a little bit of an attraction to younger men. This was completely normal in ancient Greek society as you might already know. In a way younger boys are a lot like girls, with small waists, little body hair, and cute faces.The other facet to this is machismo. Sometimes men can get caught up in masculine feelings of comradery to the point that competition or just plain guy time can turn into feelings of sexual attraction, this is normal. Yes, sexual attractive toward other man can be completely normal in some contexts. Men who enjoy watching sports, wrestling, camping with their male friends, these are all borderline sexual activities in some ways. The fact that you feel direct sexual desire for these boys is a combination of the two things I've discussed. The femininity of the boys bodies combined with the masculinity of their cocks and their raw sexuality leads to your attraction. It's simple as that. So long as you look, but don't touch, you never have to tell your gf anything. You're private fantasies are just that, private. On a side note: I was once one of those boys on those sites. My uncle tricked me into taking those pictures when I was well under-age. But that's for another post I think...
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Maybe your Bi sexual?That doesn't mean anything is wrong with you,few people are born 100% Hetero or 100% Gay,on a scale of 1-10 most lie somewhere between,but few admit that.People are born with the sexual feelings and what attracts them most,so enjoy,be safe,its your body!I've been BI since I was 10,birth in other words,AC/DC,enjoy the best of both worlds,lolChubs
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I realize this is an old thread but I've spent far too much time on this site this morning (so much it is now in fact the afternoon) I just discovered the forum obviously so hey!! Hi! Helllooooo!Sexuality is fluid. Sadly this is the opposite of what we're taught growing up in this society but nevertheless sexuality is extremely hard to categorize both historically and scientifically but out society is obsessed with making everything binary—black-and-white, there is no gray. I blame western religion and that bastard Sigmund Freud. You're not gay, you're human. And I have had waaay too much caffeine this morning… and afternoon…Anyway, I'm off to find the next thread to liven up with my cracked out self! Peace.
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Welcome to A2A, Van!