Right now I don't know what to do with myself, I feel really, really confused and shocked. You see, it all happened when I needed to print a few online documents out, and as my handheld PC isn't connected with the printer, I decided to use my boyfriend's stationary. So, while waiting for the files to print, I noticed a folder in the middle of his desktop, which was named after a game I'm currently playing. (We're both gamers.) I know he loves cute art, and collects various mushy pictures from google or deviantArt, so I opened it without much thinking, simply curious what there was. I mean, it couldn't have been anything bad if it was right there, so easily accessible, right?Imagine my shock, when the folder contained pictures of pokemon furries as well as pokemon trainers having hardcore sex! My jaw literally dropped.I know he's been watching hentai and porn sometimes, and I've done my very best to accept it, but I feel like this is too much for me. I cannot accept the idea of him looking at these 10-13 year old cartoon characters having sex with each other. I find it absolutely revolting. Furries are very much a no-go for me aswell.I freaking love him, and I know he loves me back, but it hurts knowing that he likes those kind of things! Especially when we've been living together for a few years now, and all this time I was trying my best to support him with his rather low self-confidence so we could actually do something in bed sometimes. Those times I can easily count with 10 fingers during our entire relationship. I feel devastated. Why am I not good enough for him when I'm like always there and wanting to be intimate with him? It's not that he isn't attracted to me, he keeps telling me how sexy and pretty I am, as well as is jealous of me, when we are in public.Oh, and I do want to spell out that I value his privacy and keep myself away from his stuff. This was truly a one time discovery, and instead of being curious to find our more, I'm scared.Anyone who has got similar experiences?Any words of advice?
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Shocked by furry porn!
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They are cartoon characters right? It's just a fetish and not a big deal. If he were into other things that involve humans or animals, then you might have a right to be concerned, but in the end they are animations.. What can be the harm?
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Being that it's his own personal little fetish in which no one is hurt, as long as it's not effecting your lives I don't see the harm. If you think this is something you must do something about before you do anything, give yourself some time to let the shock wear off and let things return to mundane normalcy. Don't make relationship decisions in the throws of shock especially about something so benign.
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I don't know what you're talking about. Real people having sex in furry costumes or what? Maybe you could post a pic cause I can't imagine what you mean.
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This is totally not gonna help you. But when I was 12 I found pokemon hentai on my best friend's computer. This was long after Pokemon was in vogue, so it was surprising and weird. I just talked to him about it and had a laugh. He just got the pics cuz he found them funny. So what if you're bf thinks Misty is hot? w/e. We all have our weird fetishes.