i went shopping and he followed me everywhere i told him to go away and i dont want to talk to him also that i was angry enough to hit him right there, but he kept pestering me. i joined gym last week and now my ex has joined there, he said so. :frowning: i am pissed off and now i dont want to go to gym :cry: i dont know how to deal with this. i had worked hard mentally and joined gym to shape up and get better, make friends hopefully. now what do i do?