Girlfriend wants to try a threesome

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Hey Guys I haven't ever started a post before.. But here's one i was just curious about. My Fiancee wants to do a threesome with her room mate. Her room mate is attractive and everything but i just feel a little weird about it. I told her that i would do it if she set everything up, but she doesn't know how to ask her room mate. Does anyone have experience with this or have any suggestions? Any help would be appreciated

I've heard warnings this sort of threesome can destroy a relationship, and I wouldn't be surprised. How will your fiancée take it when you're actually getting on with her room-mate? I think your reservations are well-founded.

That's what i was thinking too... Thank you for your input.

Well i think it's every man's fantasy to be with 2 girls at one time. I'd so go for it, once. After that see how it feels .

And That was my first reaction... But after that i just got this weird feeling. I dunno. Maybe we'll see what more people think when they respond

well i would of course at first b like a threesome! sweet! but i mean cmon...if you have a serious emotional relationship...then itll probably totally screw it up...especially since you guys are gonna get married...but i dunno your choice. just talk it over with your fiance and make sure you both know what you're getting yourselves into

Thanks for your comments, I think y ou have helped me confirm my feelings. I am going to tell her that she's everything that I need and want and hopefullyl she'll be okay with that. Thanks again

excellent decision.

In reply to: do it, you'll regret it later if you don't. what happens if it screws up the relationship?

do u know for sure that it wont affect her? cuz i mean it was her idea but... idk. i would check to make sure that she is truely comfortable with it and it wont affect her.

I'd say if the two of you are interested in a threesome...go for it but LEAVE her roomate out of it, those can be disasterous on a relationship!

If your girlfriend is the one asking, maybe she's the one who's looking forward to having a threesome with another female. Maybe she wants to find some things out about herself before you guys get too far into each other and have kids and everything.

Most of the time a threesome destroys your relationship. Whether or not you want to risk the relationship is your choice. If you don't see yourself with this girl for a long time, then have some fun.EDIT: Just noticed how old this post was. (slaps forehead)

Are you serious? My fiancee asked me once to have a threesome with a friend of mine -- she wanted a sandwich, but thought that my tool was too big for her backside. She asked me to ask a friend of mine and he jumped at the idea. Seeing her laying there with his cock embedded in her butt was one of the most erotic experiences of my life, and her watching me watch her got her off tremendously...knowing that I would allow her this bit of eccentricity and not getting jealous.My wife (different woman) has asked me about the idea of including another female in our sexual forays, and she is extremely turned on by the idea of me screwing her friend while her friend goes down on her, of licking her friend's twat while I pound her friend in the ass and of using her strap-on to screw her friend while she blows me. I am open to the idea, of course, as a menage-a-trois is almost every man's wet dream.Just make sure that you are both emotionally prepared to handle the act. If one of you has even the most remote apprehension about it, it could spoil the experience. As for how to approach her roommate, assuming she is sexually liberated, simply ask her. I recommend using alcohol to loosen up the tongue a little and bring down some of the learned inhibitions that people tend to have about such topics. Have your fiancee share a bottle of wine with her roommate over a steamy movie and see what happens. I know I have been seduced several times over the years this way. If it pans out, great, but don't push the issue. Better to let it happen than to push too hard and destroy a friendship.If your fiancee is open-minded enough to try a threesome, let it happen. If now is not the right time, use it later in your marriage to spice things up a bit. Figure my wife knew I liked anal when she met me 10 years ago, but just recently started getting into anal play...she explained, to keep things interesting. Another few years and we will look into including another party in our love life, but we are just not to that point yet.

I'll repeat with emphasis on the word most

MOST of the time a threesome destroys your relationship.

There are people who have threesomes or have had threesomes and are still happily together.

you have a wife AND a fiancee?