i became sexually active recently (done it only few times) and dont know why but every time i have sex its painful. we are doing everything right and i m wet enough and turned on etc etc but still the intercourse is painful. i m far from having an orgasm as well. my bf isnt rough either, he is pretty gentle and stops when i say its hurting.i bled a lot when i had sex with my bf the first and second time. i was not a virgin as i was raped when i was 15, i was never sexually involved with anyone since then (nearly 14 years-inactive). so when i bled during sex i was a bit surprised. i feel embarrassed saying this but i felt like something down there tear during intercourse.is this because i became active recently or is it an issue (like do i need to see a doc about this)?my bf also said i m too tight. i dont know much about sex, have only read about stuff online offline but doing it for real is different from what i read or thought i knew. dont know whats happening or whats wrong.please help me understands whats going on
Hi Saya, I think if you can manage it, an examination by a gynaecologist would be a good idea. Perhaps there are still bits of hymen there.
thanks Pete, i will get it checked out.
@saya25 Hi OK just in case anyone looks at this, 14 year break will do this, it takes time for a vagina to get back into the swing of things and take a penis, starting with small dildos and working up to thicker ones is the way to go
This should stop any pains from sex and a penis, but always use lots of lubrication like coconut oil extra virgin is the thing you get lots of slip and lasts.