Hello to all! I am an only child and likely to have an arranged marriage in the next few years. The thing is, I’m gay :/ Should I come out? I’m too afraid to let my family down. What should I do, everyone?
Welcome to A2A, charlieergan.
Only you know the full circumstances, but I would urge you to think of the girl involved, and what situation she would be in. You should also think of how you would cope with living a married life.
I think these considerations outweigh any hurt to your family. If it is a good family you will probably find it is more supportive than you expected.
If you can find a gay group in your area, you might find some helpful advice and support there.