Really, really need some help. I have putting up with a problem for months now. Started back about 3 weeks after visiting a massage parlor. Yes, she gave me a "happy" finish. Used a condom, took a shower with hot water and soap immediately after. So, I started feeling an odd pressure after urination. This became more severe and uncomfortable. Immediately after urination, had a strong feeling like I needed to continue, but little or nothing came out. Also, felt like I was dribbling, penis and groin felt “warm and wet” – but there was no actual wetness. This progressed, and became a dull pain, all up and down the penis and into the groin area. This was at times just uncomfortable and at times quite painful. I have no discharge, sores or any outward sign of illness (i.e. swelling, discoloration, etc.) Anyway, so now I am thinking bad things must be happening and go to the local clinic to get checked. Urine comes out clear, but they put me on doxycycline just in case.After 10 days, problem does not go away. So, I go back to the clinic and get tested specifically for Chlamydia and Gonorrea and have a Urine culture done. I am also really worried as the problem seems to get worse on some days and better on others, but does not go away. I am also generally feeling bad with a headache, a low fever and a level of exhaustion I have never felt before. So - I also get an AIDS test - just to be sure. All came back negative.Now I don't know what to do. The problem gets so bad at times I can't sleep and it affects my work. I generally feel terrible, am extremely tired and weak. After a normal days work, I can hardly stand up. Would appreciate any advice as this is killing me.