Hi - I am Claudia and I am 19. I have a strange fetish and I want to know what others think and if I it is even somewhat normal. Similar to another post a few days ago I like to be completely controlled. My B/F gets sooo off on this too and I love when he ties me to the bed spread eagle. He did this one time I told him to force me to do anything no matter what and made him promise not to stop no matter what I said or how much I yelled. He tied me up and showed up with 4 freinds and they all went at me. I was totaly humiliated having them force them selved in my pussy mouth and ass but at the same time it was a turn on and I got really excited. My b/f was afaid I would be mad after, I was a little, but more excited. What do others think of this???? I feel like a freak for liking this!
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Am I Normal ????
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You're not a freak. You'll just have to be careful when doing things like that. There might come a time when you REALLY want him to stop and he'll think you're still just playing. You could talk about that and agree on a word you could say that would stop it all. Something that you wouldn't say normally when doing this. You'll have to be careful as well that this doesn't hurt your relationship with your boyfriend. Especially when there are other guys going at it with you. And if you really aren't consenting to these guys doing things to you, wouldn't that be considered rape?
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Yes, people experienced in bondage always have a safety word, and so should you, Claudia.
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sounds like a story to me
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I totally love that sort of thing, but my boyfriend and i have a safty word, and we never take things to far, we want it to be safe for the both of us.
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good safty word: pickle-weasel....sorry but it is a good safty word, dont know anyone who says that during sex
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I agree with you Amanda.
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I to get turned on by being controlled and stuff, but I don't think I would ever go that far, and I personally would get pretty pissed off if A) my bf brought other people especially friends into something so private, I mean obviously its something that kinda bothers you if you've come here about it, and 2nd why would my bf wanna watch other guys have sex with me? I'd throw a fit, a big one.