my b.f, who i love is moving, and everythings been so messed up, their moving today, and they kinda dont even know where..if the rent to own lady's daughter doesnt accept them, then he might have to go far away and live with his dad...i dont know what to do...i dont know where hes gunna be moving, or whats happening, i dont even know if i'll get to see him today, everythings so messed up, and im so scared of losing him...hes scared if he goes to his dads, i'll find someone else...but i wont, there is noone like him..i just dont know what to do...what if he moves away? or i dont get to see him again? this so sucks...how do i cope with my feelings, and help him through the stress of moving to god knows where..without even possibly being able to see him again?
What to do???
It may be hard, but if it's meant to be, then you guys will work it out. You're young, lots of time. Just try and keep busy and devote time/thought to your own life and it will get easier. I know from my own experiences. :smile:
Woman don't understand how many fish in the sea there are, they always want a specific guy!
If your hearts truly desire each other then it will work out. It's going to be hard but it can be done. I know a girl that recently married the man she could only see for 4 weeks out of the year. He lived in a different country and they're both relatively young. In their 20s.
To comfort his feelings, tell him you trust him 100% and you expect the same in return. Your heart only desires him.
If you can, you should both invest in cell phones. Possibly the same service provider so you can call each other for free any time. e-mail is a good deal. And like another said, keep yourself busy.
One thing last thing: Opening up your heart to someone means vulnerability yet you have to trust being vulnerable.