Worried over boyfriends drinking

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he drinks 3-5 cans of lager

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ok right. thats not an awful lot to be honest (unless its like export larger) i drink more than that every night, and i'm way from being an alcoholic

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when we go out to meet friends he often gets really drunk

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again, not a problem. when i go out with friends i get so drunk i usualy dont remember anything.

still, if they do it just for the hell of it, this person might have a big problem. alcoholism is very spesific to the individual, for example i'd NEVER drink to get drunk on my own. its just sad

From all of what you have just said... I would say that YOU have a problem too.

i know i dont have a problem with drinking. i never NEED a drink. i dont come back from university, sit down and get wasted. i'll drink a few glasses of wine with dinner, then have a few cans as i work and maybe a whiskey with mates later. thats hardly alcoholism. i know it varies from person to person, but i know i'm not an alcoholic, i dont drink every single day unless i want to. still as i say it varies. some people can drink every day and not be an alcoholic(me) and for others, its different

oh and that alcoholscreening.org website is a load of utter cunt shite. if your under 21 it automaticly says your an alcoholic, pfff. somebody (i.e. me) should make one that is actualy useful for people who are under 21

tell him to start doing some cocaine along w the beer, it helps keep you from getting right fucking drunk!

amen to that, although some guy at my uni did coke while totaly hammered and ended up in a cell and got kicked out. the lesson: dont do it in moderation, do it at home

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dont do it in moderation

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well that doesn't make sense, moderation is good. you don't want to be getting COMPLETELY loopy on it, that's when bad things happen and paranoia kicks in

my point there is not dont do it in moderation and do lines till you black out, just dont take coke into a club or whatever cause that can end in total disaster

agreed

or you could just do speed, ive been up since wednesday