Hi,so I'm female and I've got some small hemorrhoids that kinda come and go as they please. (And yes I am taking all the steps necessary to minimize them... fiber, etc) The problem is, I am too self conscious to have sex with my fiance once they've left, even a day or 2 after, as I am afraid they will re-appear(which sometimes they do). I'd just like to have sex without worrying about it. Any thoughts?