My wife and I seperated about a month ago.She says she loves me, but not like a husband. She says it will come back, but she needs time.Does this sound as if it can happen? I find it hard to understand that you can fall out and back in love.At the moment she says she will let me know when we can"date" each other again, she needs more time.Has anyone had the same thing happen?She gets calls on her phone all the time from male, which are mutual friends, so there is nothing going on. I get one call from a girl, and she hits the roof. Double standards.I am 44 and this is playing with my head. I love here deeply and she loves me, but "not as much as she wants to at the moment"I have been clinically depressed and just found out. I am under medication and feeling much better.Any advice?
sorry to hear about your problems :frowning:
i suggest you post over on the forum at divorce online
not trying to imply that's where you're headed, but there are a lot of very good people there with experience and good advice on how to keep your marriage together. (yes, most of them there believe in trying, and only divorcing as a last resort.)
i think the group here is too young to effectively answer your questions and concerns.