Me and my boyfriend Jordon has just started going out a while ago! But the first time i met him, i thought he was amazing...hes like my dream guy! I no how most people go out with guys that go to the same schoool as them...but Jordon lives in Windsor and i live in Tecumseh! So its kind of a problem for us to hang out anywhere, plus both of our parents dont no were dating! so thats an even bigger problem. But on school nights i sometimes cry/and im very sad because i cant see him and im away from him. I dont no if this is obbssesion, or what it is! Me crying? is that Normal? And does anyone have any suggestions where me and Jordon could hang out at on the weekend?Thanks!
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Whats wrong with me!?!?
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Nothing is wrong with you dear. If you want my opinion, I think you are going through the stress from a long distance relationship. I'm not an expert but I have been in a relationship for quite sometime now, and will soon be engaged. I have been through a lot of stress and, even though I see my soon to be fiancee everyday, I still miss him like 5 minutes after being away from him. And another thing...if your parents don't know about your relationship with him it can be very stressful to hide something like that. And also, when something like this happens to you, you want so badly to talk to someone about the ups and downs about it. I'll be happy to talk to you more about this if you're willing
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I dont think anything is wrong with you, Id reckon its a long distance relation thing, they arent good for you because they can cause way to much emotional stress of you not being with youre "luved" one
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Yep, thats kinda what I was trying to say, guess I got carried away lol :grin:
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yea sorta, i was just tryin to shorten it up a bit
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My best friend was a pretty clingy girl in the past. Her last boyfriend was long distance and at first she spent many nights unable to sleep, crying, depressed, things of that sort. I tried my best to comfort her. She finally did make it easier for herself by keeping herself busy all the time. It got to the point where I had a hard time getting a hold of her because she was always on the move. She heard from her boyfriend once a week and she was more or less 'okay' with it. So my advice to you is to keep yourself busy and become independent. After a while being busy becomes a habit and you won't have a problem.
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Long distance relationships are tough but if you keep the communication going, and the love is really there, it'll last. It's rare, but it can last.Being in relationships where you don't see each other much even when you CAN is even tougher. (Meaning your partner isn't caring enough to see you often.) I mention this only to comfort you and let you know that if you could see each other everyday, you would. But you can't. And it has nothing to do with how much you care for each other. See where I'm getting at?Websexinfo is right with the keeping busy thing. It works. You may find yourself wanting to mope around and not do anything because you want to drown in your thoughts (atleast, I felt that way) but resist the urge and fill your time. From my point of view, contact and trust are the key factors to having them work out. How often do you guys see each other?