Ok guys I have a really embarrassing experience that happened to me last night. So I was fooling around with this girl and just as things started to get hot and heavy I had an orgasm right in my pants. There was no touching involved, just kissing and groping at this point. I got up and told her I had to pee so she didn’t know, but it was incredibly embarrassing. We stopped hooking up at that point and I went to bed, because I was too distraught. I then ended up having a wet dream that night!I have never had a problem like this before, and I’m very confused as to what’s going on. I’ve had a pretty normal sex life, where I’ve had intercourse/gotten head and not had any problems (besides not lasting as long as I would ideally like at times). Recently I just went to college so I’m sharing a room and have not been masturbating at all. I’m wondering if this could be the problem, or if something else is going on. Any suggestions would be great, should I worry, or just forget about it?
Sounds to me like the only problem you're suffering is horniness. You were making out, you got hot, you got hard, you ejaculated before you had your penis out of your pants. It happens, probably to most guys (including me) at some time or other--the expression "creamed in his jeans" comes from somewhere. I would have told the lady exactly what happened--sex is all about communication, and if you level, who knows?--you might get a second chance. And next time, I'd find a way to jack an hour or less before you get together. Even if you're in a dorm with roommates, there are always bathrooms or men's rooms with stalls.
Hey bud, don't give this another thought, happens to the best of us...you're body just got ahead of you! Hopefully you can find a way for masturbating more, that may help and it certainly will be better for you. Guys in college all masturbate, maybe you and your roomie need to work out a system? Plenty of guys have done that, you need some privacy to keep practicing that skill!
I would say that was all caused by not masturbating, and you had a build up of semen in your body. The longer you go without ejaculating, the more sensitive the penis becomes in terms of getting to orgasm, and the threshold of orgasm comes on much sooner and stronger. In other words, when you go a long time without ejaculating, it doesn't take much stimulation at all to get to a point of ejaculation. Another indication of this is that you had a wet dream that night. Wet dreams usually don't occur if you're ejaculating frequently.
My recommendation is to just ejaculate more often through masturbation. Like lance said, all guys in college masturbate. Just find your time and place to do it without others finding out. For me, my favorite place to masturbate in college was while showering, or on the toilet stall, or in bed if I knew my roomate wouldn't walk in on me.