this is the problem. I just started going out with this girl About a week ago we started making out and I wasnt really as used to it as she was because she was my first real girl friend. So i got a boner and had it during the entire time then, she felt it (by accident). later she stopped talking to me all together and i found out it was it was because she was weirded out by it. how can i prevent this. ive heard that jerking off before this stuff will help prevent it, but it didnt work when i tried. what can i do to stop this from happeing again because its reeeeaaaaly embarissing
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A tough one
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Hey bro, it happens to everyone. The only surprising thing about this story is the girl's reaction. Maybe you could think about something else when you make out. You could also just try to avoid contact between your boner and her. In the end you'll get used to making out, and girls will get used to boners. Its nothing to worry about
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She shouldnt be weirded out by it, even alot of expierenced people get hard sometimes while kissing, it can be very passionate and sexual just kissing and i have got hard kissing to the girl i was kissing didnt care, i really dont think a girl gets weirded out by it but they might, you shouldnt really ,let it get you down to much i mean you have a penis if your doing something even remotely sexual you might get hard. How old is she?
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nice name btw a guy getting a boner in that situation usually is a flattering / reassuring thing to the girl
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It sounds like you're both young and you two just aren't accustomed to things like this yet. Don't worry about becoming hard while making out, it's only natural. After a while she won't be weirded out.I'm a little concerned about this relationship though. I mean if the relationship doesn't continue there will always be other ones, right? But I'm just wondering if she's still not talking to you.
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Hey. Most of the girls i no and me wouldnt be offended at all that you were that into it/liked it that much. Ya'll do both sound pretty young- if ya dont mind how old are yall two?