Virginity

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im an 18 yr old virgin and the pressure is starting to build, i have to get laid! fuck.

No, you don't have to. Don't get pressured into things, be your own man.

lol i know where you're comin from. Pressure is a son-a-bitch. I lost mine at 16 to somebody I really shouldnt have, just because of pressure. Just lie & tell everyone you've had sex!

what`s the point in waiting ?

If it makes you feel a little better im 28 and a virgin. I have never given in to sex because of pressure. I am not waiting till my wedding night because of pressure. If you give into doing stupid things because of pressure, how will you react to important things. Actually sex is important, but you get what I mean. Be a stronger guy, you will use your strengths as you turn into a MAN. God Bless.

You dont.. People loose their virginity at different times. Just because you're 18 and a virgin, don't just have sex with any girl.. Make it special.. You're first time

In reply to: I have never given in to sex because of pressure. I am not waiting till my wedding night because of pressure. do you mean you are waiting til you are married?if not, what are you waiting for? In reply to: what`s the point in waiting ? to be able to say to someone that they are worth that muchto make both sex and marriage to mean so much more to abstain from std's :P

thanks people, it helps.

Man, I have to consider myself lucky. I'm now 18 and lost my virginity at 16, to a really great girl. Unfortunately since we broke up about 6 months ago there haven't been any girls since then. Don't worry, I used to think the exact same thing, but then it just happened. Keep tryin dude!

yeah thats the thing i see my friends go out and lose theirs to a bunch of..... (sluts) who sleep with 10 guys a week. diseases and pregnancy aside, I wouldn't want that just for the simple fact that you'd be another one of their MANY MANY partners. I do want it to be with someone special, but at the same time i hope its sometime soon! i also don't think i'd "perform" very well either. aare there any tips?

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. If you have a lot of peer pressure to lose your virginity, just lie and tell your friends you've gotten laid before and you're not a virgin. They won't know the difference. There's no way for them to prove that you're lying. The only person who will ever know for sure if you're really a virgin or not, is yourself.

I think it's easier said than done to lie about it to your friends though. More often than not Im sure they can tell by the way you say it or the tone of your voice. Then they will ask you oh yea, with who, or how was it, what did u do, etc. etc. and will be able to tell by your responses.Thankfully I dont get asked that question and if someone asked me I think I'd say yea I am, but I dunno. I mean I think if a guy friend is asking you, I'd be more temped to lie and say Im not a virgin, but if a girl asked I would tell her the truth.Btw I just turned 20 about 6 weeks ago and I'm still a virgin. I've never had the opportunity to sleep with someone, but that's not to say I definitely would do it if I had the chance. It's got to be someone I care about and Im really not desperate to do it, I've waited this long and Im sure I can wait a bit longer lol.I know that feeling must be good though, for your first time to be something special and with someone you care about.I know I'd definitely rather that than sleep with anybody just for the heck of it at 16 just to say I lost my virginity. No way.Maybe that's more of a "girl" thing, to want it to be special and with someone you care about but I don't care lol. Sometimes yea I get really horny like I wish some girl was right here so I could do her but that's not happening lol.

It's usually the younger crowd that asks, "hey are you a virgin?" and then if you say yes then they give you the "haha" in your face type of deal.

As people get older, they find it respectable that you're still a virgin.

DUDE believe me its so important your first time. it is some thing that you will remember for ever so dont blow it on some cheep fuck. you will regret it. it would be like the worst experience if you just do it with any one its gotta be special. and just think, when you do finaly do it, it will be that much better that you waited.