I told my boyfriend that I wasn't comfortable with him going down on me or touching me just yet because I have trust issues, but realli I didn't want to tell him that I'm actually scared that he won't like my large labia. He knows I really want to be intimate with him, so he said next time he's not going to ask for my permission. Should I just tell him the truth ahead of time and see if he cares, or should I just let him find out on his own? I'm so scared to see how he'll react because he made a comment before about brown pussy lips and wrinkles and what not. I dunno, I think he likes me enough that he wouldn't care, and he's been with enough girls that he might have already seen and touched one. I dunno, so confusing! That would really bruise my self esteem if he scrunched up his face or ran away, lol.
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Should I tell him?
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You don't need to tell him, because it's nothing to be ashamed of. If he runs away then he's not worth it to begin with.
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Hmmmm... I think you should just let him find out. You really think you'll become that intimate after being together for only 3 weeks?
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plus the fact that he doesn't seem that interested in you to begin with, watch out
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Let him find out, telling him ahead might freak him out more than if he found out. Besides, if he leaves b/c of that, then he didn't really care about u in the first place.
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don`t talk about it after he`s seen it. He`ll see that u had a problem with it and didn`t tell him so ther`ll maybe trust issues
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what?? I am sorry ghost but that made no sense.
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she tells him that she has a problem with her large labia. He
ll wonder why she didn
t tell him that she had a problem with it. He wil not trust her again ( maybe ) -
There's no problem with her labia to begin with!