I have a huge problem. i have been going out with my girl friend and have been sexually active with her for the last 2 years. i love her very much and want to spend the rest of my life with her. however i have always liked anal play. she has always thought it to be wierd but ignored it. recently i find my self more and more currious. i have been thinking about what it would be like to give head and have sex with a guy. does that make me gay. i am not attracted romanticly to guys but just currious as to what it would be like. am i gay is this normal?? please help thanks