ive got a girlfriend that enjoys oral sex and fingering that stimulates the clit, but when she gets near orgasm, she starts feeling like im tickling her intensley, and she pulls me away. she just says that its really intense and she cant take that feeling of such a strong tickle. i can get her to orgasm through sex, but not through the clit. how can i do this?! ive been with her for years, and its extremely frustrating!! what is wrong!?!
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Question on "tickling clit"
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I don't think there is anything wrong. Some women just can't orgasm from clitoral stimulation, but that doesn't mean it's not fun. :wink:
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you might be giving too much direct stimulation as she nears orgasm. i can take direct initially, but as i get close to coming, direct almost hurts. at that time i need indirect (but still firm) stimulation -- typically through the hood (skin that covers and protects the clit.) try going about 1/2" above her clit, stimulating through that protective skin.