Hi everyone, So I've been dating my boyfriend for a while now, and since I was a virgin when we started going out, we decided to graduate slowly in the sexual arena (virgin territory was new for him too). So recently we decide that it's time he tries to enter me. He does, at my pace, but it all goes to hell anyway.It hurts me like a bitch, and sensing this, he decides to quit for my sake and pull out. We then notice that I've bled rather profusely. Now it's not the cherry and it's not my period. He's already popped me with his hand (what a mess also). I guess my inexperience is coming out now and I don't know where else to vent: but it's frustrating that all my vagina seems to do is hurt, get injured, and/or just bleed randomly when we try anything new down there. I want to try new things but I'm sick of them being cut short by this adjustment phase. Does every woman go through this? Is there any reassurance or tips out there that might get me over this disagreement I'm having with my Ms. Pussylips?Thanks in advance.
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The frustration...
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heh I'm glad you found your answers in my thread hun I was so freaked out when I bled..stupid vaginas!!
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d` u play Starcraft ?
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The only way to get through it is to go through it. You can do it nice and slow, or just breath slowly and tell him to go for it. Think of it like a band aid. Better to tug at it slowly or rip it off. And I would wager the blood was still your cherry. Unless you guys were fisting or something, I doubt he ripped it enough.
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Generally, like almost every other thread in here, you can assume you just aren't relaxed enough or lubricated enough. Or someone is freakishly large or you are super small... Or, it may be something that is actually wrong with your anatomy, and you may want to see a gynocologist.