hey guys i recently got invited to go to my Gf's Play friday by my girlfriend..then a day later shes like "oh dont go because..ermm u dont like her" (her being my gfs friend) and im like wtf..i like her lol.. but i was like fine.. then i ask why and she said "Well me and her hasnt spent much time together in a while and u dont like her.." so then i was like weird.and i been suspecious..cause the weekend before my gf and her friend were havin a converstation about a party her friend went to and how her friend hooked up with all these guys and girls, it was an Afterplay Party..just like there goin to have this friday, when my gf hangs out with her friend.. but as i said she suddenly didnt want me to go.like it was a random thing to say at the time...then my sister said well find out and she said maybe just look in her e-mails i didnt want to cause i know i should trust her.. but i did anyways and i found an e-mail .. 2hours before she came to my house..and told me i couldnt go to the play. it goes like this (the e-mail)yes i think i am coming friday. do you need to tell me anymore drama. wow shelby i cant believe it! lol. you drank.ahhh im excited for you. paul wants to come friday. i told him he didnt have to. but he said he wanted to . so is taht ok with you? and any boys? is there a cover charge for the play? if there is i have to know so i can bring money.wot do u think about the boys part? hmmmm im a bit worried wot to do
Should i be on the look out?
Well the email seems pretty innocent. And she may just be wondering if any boys are coming for no particular reason. It is kind of suspcious how she suddenly wanted to stop you from attending. Maybe the best way is to attend anyway and see what she wanted to hide. Just remember: If the trust is broken between you, there's no point in the relationship. If you have faith and trust in her, you shouldn't worry too much.
Nah I wouldn't worry about it, I mean, you trust her right? Just you were a bit confused as to why she 'suddenly' changed her mind.. I don't think it's a problem. It's up to you, maybe you can let this go then if you ever suspect something again, think about what WeirdGirly said about trust in your relationship. We all get like this at some point, it's not that you don't trust them, it's just that they mean alot to you and you don't want anything to happen, if you get me.
Take Care, JaXx