In reply to: im to young to buy any thing any way what can i buy or use??? Your finger should be good enough at first, some people cant reach the prostate gland though with their finger, in that case look around your house and remember these things:make sure the item you use is not too short, this can lead to an embarrasing situation of getting it 'sucked up' into your anusmake sure it has a rounded end and no sharp edges or pointsmake sure it is hygenic - keep it WELL cleaned and if you can you should always use a condom with foreign objectskeeping these in mind look around your house and use your imagination - you should be able to find quite a few suitable objects and I hope this helps you.