Hey. Ok, another question sorry.. haha I have a boyfriend for almost a year now and we have sex alot. I have slept with a few other guys also...before my boyfriend.. and I have yet to feel like I have had an orgasm. Is it possible i didn't notice it or if not what can i do to have one? I have sometimes felt like i was about to pee..lol.. iknow its weird..but then i just stop or it goes away.. what's up with all of this??
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I'm sorry to hear this! Maybe the only solution to this is to keep going past and through the peeing sensation!
I too am sorry to hear this. :-( No you can't miss it. You'll know when you have one. Have either of you tried stimulating your clitoris while having sex? Only 25% of women can have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. (I actually doubt this number because I have yet to meet a woman that can have one without clitoral stimulation but that's what the statistics are.) So the guy just going in and out it's likely to get you anywhere. Inform him that you're going to rub yourself while having sex, so that he allows room for your hand and doesn't mash you, that's really painful and will likely kill the moment for you. And also ask him to wait for you to cum before he goes. It's hard but he can do it if cares enough. And if he sees you cumming it will really get him off. I haven't met a man yet that doesn't get off on watching their partner have an orgasm.