After oral

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After oral sex my boyfriend doesn't want to kiss with tongue. even if I drink after that. It feels like he thinks my mouth is a dustbin. Does anyone has the same problem?

Well hmh i see were he is coming from, i mean to him he is thinking um i will basicly licking my own dick.when u say oral um does he cum in your mouth?if so um ya i total see why he doesnt want to.but if you mouth wash it should be fine.i think he loves you and all its just a mental thing were like you dont want your own stuff inside you.like i wouldnt eat my cum but.........a girls juice i would.would you lick your own juice up?its all mental he still loves and respects you i would think.

what NCIX is true.i would also lick a girl's juice but not my own cum. but if the girl has washed her mouth then i won't hasitate to kiss her using tongue.

WTF! She does something nice for him and then she's crap. Tell him you won't give him oral anymore. Then you can have all the kisses you want.
If he wants a bj he'll have to grow up. It's not like she's tryin' to give him a snowball.
Don't give him an ultimatum. If he would rather not have oral then to have to kiss you afterwards that's his right. But you don't have to go without kisses. Nor do you have to give him a bj. Decide what you want and go with that. He's not the only one with power in the relationship.

Yeah it kind of pisses me off when after i give oral to my bf he doesn't kiss me. Cus that's sick, or gay, whatever... I don't see why that's gay though cus who cares even if you do taste a little of your own cum, you're still kissing a girl, and we all know you're not gay. unless you're that insecure with your sexuality and that paranoid to get a little cum in your mouth. even though there's nothing in my mouth except maybe a little taste, cus it goes in the back of my throat, and then down. next time he wants me to do it i'm just gonna say i'd rather kiss you then do this for you, cus i know i wont be able to kiss you after. and then he gets mad when i try to kiss him afterwards. he makes me wait like 3 minutes or whatever after i'm done before i can kiss him, which wouldn't even make a difference because i can still taste it in the mack of my throat after the 3 mionutes, so it's just pointless stopping. and the part that really bothers me is usually after i do it for him we move on to other stuff, and i'm all ready to go, but we gotta wait 3 minutes before we do anything cus he doesn't want to kiss me

good god, if he expects you to put up with it, he should at least be a man about it and kiss you.i would

hey girls can you lick up your own juice?and can you kiss your boyfriend if he has your juice in his mouth?

i kiss him after he has licked me down there.

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i kiss him after he has licked me down there.

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bravo :grin:
does he have your juice in his mouth at the time you kiss him? :blush:

Ditto that response ilikekisses!!!!

After my boyfriend goes down on me he won't kiss me because he doesn't want me to have to taste my own stuff. Which also makes me mad cus i have to grab his head and force our lips together then we jsut go from there, but it's so irritating that he's liek this. or when he finishes fingering me, just to make a point i lick his fingers.. I don't care about how it tastes, or that it's my own juice. All I care about it that we, two straight people, are doing straight things together, so it shouldn't matter at all.

You girls should just stop denying your boyfriends blowjobs until they grow up. Tell them their dicks taste nasty and you don't want that taste in your mouths. A guy who's gonna be stupid like that doesn't deserve a blowjob. In my opinion, if you are a guy and you expect your girl to suck you, you'd better not be squeamish about your own body either.

I meant "start denying"

That's tehe stupidest thing I've heard when guys won't kiss after getting blown. What's so scary about it? What's so gross about it? I've always figured that if one of the people can take it then the other one can take it too. I feel badly for you, in that the guy is acting like such a little kid. What if he fucked you first and came inside your pussy - - would he go down and eat you out after that? I like the taste of my cum, so I've never had a problem doing that. And to me it's a huge turn on to make out after getting sucked. I prefer the girl to NOT swallow so that we can snowball (make out when her mouth is full of my cum and pass it back and forth between our mouths).

Bleahhh... that's nasty.

I'd love to kiss a female right after another guy came in her mouth. And I'd REALLY love to go down on a woman after a guy filled her with his hot, sticky cum!

michael

I have no problem kissing after oral sex. As long as she doesnt' plan on spitting my "load" back into my mouth. You can't tell the difference. I've never had a girl that wouldn't kiss me after going down on them. Again out of respect, I do not have a mouthful of juices to give back to them. This is just another instance of closed mindedness and lack of maturity in my own opinion.

when a guy goes down on me - as long as he kisses his way up my stomach.. i'll kiss anyway he wants to