Hi im new to these forums and feels pretty weird but i was wondering if you could help me out. I've met this girl i really like and shes a year older than me (she's 17 im 16). Shes had sex before and says she has just come out of a serious relationship. She says she likes me and i made the 1st move at a party and we kissed but nothing more.We've gone to the cinema and we're always keeping in touch knowing what eachothers doing that day etc. The other day she said she wanted to take it slow if we were gonna get involved and I didn't really mind. But recently shes been making sort of sexual gestures and my mate said she told him it was up to me to make the first move so i'm not sure what she wants. any ideas? if i've left out any details that may help any of you understand give me a shout.cheers.
What does she want?
Sounds like the old switcheroo to me. Say one thing do the other. She doesn't want to get too serious too quickly because she just got out of a serious relationship, yet she is conflicted because what she feels at the moment is something totally different. Ya know what I mean? So, I say take it by steps. Let it progress a step higher than the last time you messed around and then say, "I thought you wanted to take it slow." Depending on her response, you'll know what to do.
yer I understand, not sure what to do though - she wants me to take her somewhere as a suprise dunno where yet though.Guess i'll soon find out