Surgery

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my libia manora is larger then i'd like. it covers my clit making it hard to reach orgasm. and i was wondering if anyone on here nows how much it costs for surgery.cause i want this gone. its embaressing. and makes my life life less then what it could be

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Damn and damn again!!! Both you ladies. Don't do it. It's just crazy! My wife has the same thing, with the labia covering her clitoris. I have NEVER failed to bring her to orgasm, either orally or using my digits or with penile penetration. I personally love all that extra skin! I enjoy the challenge ,of making her clitoris poke her head out and ask for directions! Yeah, it's tough but you two just need to find the right guy(s). Feel blessed by what you have. A real and experienced man will know what to do. Please give it time and don't do the surgery. It's far too invasive and not worth the price. The loss of feeling will happen so, why do it? It's just robbing Peter to pay Paul.

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Allright. You're about 19 or so? Any decision you make now will affect you for the rest of your life! Body modification is extremely invasive, especially where nerves are involved. You may end up with perfectly normal-looking labia but with little feeling as a result.Be "very" happy with what you have. It's not a detriment but a blessing in disguise. The right guy will know what to do. If he can't, then wait for him or educate him. Sort of a weeding out process.You ladies don't even know the power you have. Just enjoy the bodies you have and the allure of your personna and don't fret about what magazines are espousing.

I just dont like the way it looks. i just want to be pretty down there. i'm afraid when i have sex for the first time. my guy is gonna make a face. or just pull away. or like tell people. i'm just scared of rejection. or something. maybe i need to see some help. i dunno. i want to have sex soon. i'm almost 18 and just have to get some help on this. please help me. any guys who read this. state your opinion

do not get surgery just to make it look "pretty"!
no one is going to make a face or reject you and if that does happen (which is very doubtful) he is too shallow and you need to find someone else.
but thats just my opinion. but seriously think about what can go wrong by doing this and not just the good things.

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Bull freakin' stupid! You are what you are. You're not entirely unique. I'll say it again: SURGERY BAD NATURAL GOOD!I, was in Vegas watching a very overweight commediene and she said "What do you call that ugly piece of meat around a pussy? A WOMAN!" It wasn't at all funny. It did make me think that maybe some women consider the physical shape, of thier labias dictates sexual acceptance. In my book? The meatier the better!You have a special gift and ,any guy with brains and a sense of adventure, will cherish the lucky lady you are!

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I think there's so much pressure put on how a woman's pussy lips look b/c women are expected to be beautiful, and when our lips down there don't look as pretty as the next, we would rather not be intimate with a man. It makes us feel unappealing and uncomfortable. I don't want a guy being so intimate with my pussy when it's hard for him to get past the meat and get to my clit...it's frusturating! and if his face is down there during oral..god, it's weird having him suck on my lips..i personally feel gross. I don't even want to shower with a guy because there's no tucking the lips in then, they just poke on out. So yea. I'm still getting the surgery.

here is one more thing i forgot to say.there will always be someone stronger, faster, and better looking than you. you have to take what you got and live with it. dont try to change yourself.

see ladies if u hadn't really noticed yet. most guys like big labia's cus they feel that a female look more woman because of it...by the way. if u get surgeory you have the risk of getiing a problem which may cause you to lose your ablity to orgasm forever. so it;s better to have a guy who know's it and respects it. i mean guys usually like it beacuse it's an extra challenge to get their woman off.believe me if i were your man i wouldn't have a problem at all..remember no one is going to accept you the way you are as long as you don't accept yourself.

man whats with all these girls and pussy surgery...
i love the lips.... keep em

Don't do it. I'm certain you look great down there. Again, don't do it.