That's great..you just have to have more confidence in yourself, this guy isn't going to give it to you. Once you see what great characteristics you have, you can find someone that you share a lot of interests with. And maybe that's the thing, he doesn't see that you have confidence, and we all know that's a major turn on. Nobody wants a clingly, obsessed person...trust me, I know from experience because I was slipping down that same road on many occasions. lol..we're all a lil' crazy