I just recently had sex with my bf. We've been dating for one and a quarter years and we were school friends for a year before that. It was my first time, but not his. It's always been up to me to decide when we have sex, and it just happened this weekend. He insists on using condoms and that's fine with me. I was just wondering how our relationship will change, or even if it will.It doesn't seem like we've changed at all but it's only been a couple of days. We have had a long distance relationship since I left for college in August, but it's not too faraway and I come home about once or twice a month.I didn't plan on having sex until after my freshman year. I don't regret it. As well as being my boyfriend he's my one of my greatest friends, which I know this whole thing sounds cliche, but I was just wondering if anyone had any advice.thanks