First time

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I was wondering that if you should tell the man you are dating or engeged to etc. if this is your first time having sex. do you think that he would get upset if you told him if it were your bf and break up i need girls and guys opinions please

Why do you think he would break up with you over that??? I would think the opposite would be true.

what do u mean the girl would break up with him? but she wants to know if it would be embarrassing to either party?

No, SDP didn't mean it like that, when he/she said that the opposite would probably happen, he/she meant that the guy would see it as being even more special and he would enjoy it more, knowing that the girl chose him for her first and all that.

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If I got married to a girl, not knowing how many partners she's had, and I finally decided to ask her... I think the most acceptable answer would be, "I was a virgin until I met you." That would make my year.

i think that he would be glad. Not just that you are a virgin-but that lets him know that you are definetly clean and that you are choosing him to be the first. Whoever i have sex with in the future-i will be hoping that it is there first time-but i wouldnt break up with them if it wasnt.

Is that because you're so bad at it she wouldn't know the difference?

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*puts on glow-in-the-dark condom and turns off all the lights* Amanda, who's your daddy!

hahaha..I want one of those glow in the dark condoms...That would be awesome at nightime.

Yep, with light saber sound effects and everything.

hahaha...could you imagine that...that would be classic. A night a girl would never forget, not sure if it would be very serious, but it would be entertaining.

The sad thing is I've been planning on doing just that for a long time. I was going to do it to my last gf, but I totally forgot about it.

haha, nice. I am sure she would have enjoyed it.

"I'm not seeing anything glowing...oh wait I see a tiny spec down below..is that all of it?"

hahahahahaha...that was a low blow or at least it could be:grin:

I saw it coming from a mile away. lol. But it's still funny.

hahaha

Not to be a bubble burster, but I had a guy break up with me because I was a virgin because he thought it'd be 'too weird' dating a virgin. He wanted someone with experience. If the guy gets upset about you being a virgin, he's not worth your time.