Anyone get their dick sucked by another guy before

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Nah no grudge, I just think it's untrue that a guy can give a guy better head then a girl can, even if both are without prior experience. I'd take a girl over a well trained guy, anyday. but that's just me

I guess we can't prove it one way or the other. I'd rather receive bad oral sex from a woman (which has happened) than good oral sex from a man (which hasn't happened, good or bad). But that just reflects my sexual orientation, not the quality of the technique.

In reply to: Bigoted comment: So you agree that gay sex is "not right, morally and biologically"? And didn't you have some intolerant things to say on the "gay bashing / bashing the gay bashers" thread that was deleted? Yes I agree. As far as the gay bashers thread, I have no idea. But if you say I said it, then I definately said it, and it must have happened.

Am I the only one who thinks we need a different word for folks who hate gay people. Homophobic means fear of homosexuals. How did we get to the point where everyone who discriminates against or says disparaging things about gay folks are accused of being homophobic? Mean, yes. Stupid, maybe. Homophobic, not necessarily.

I, on the other hand, neither hate nor discriminate against gay men. But if I were completely honest I would have to say there is a fear that I carry. I own that and am dealing with it. I have a couple of gay friends who I think are absolutely amazing men. If I say that I carry a little bit of fear around them, would you (you generally...not directed specifically at Steve) think I hate them?

I just hate when we confuse and misuse words.

I THINK, THAT GIVEN THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF ALCOHOL AND THE RIGHT SITUATION, MOST EVERYONE HAS THOUGHT ABOUT DOING IT WITH SOMEONE OF THE SAME SEX, EVEN IF IT MEANS GETTING YOUR DICK SUCKED BY ANOTHER MAN.IT'S BEEN OVER 10 YRS. BUT I HAVE HAD MY DICK SUCKED BY ANOTHER GUY, AND IT WAS GREAT. IT TAKES A GUY TO KNOW WHAT REALLY FEELS GREAT TO ANOTHER MAN. AND I'M NOT HOMO-PHOBIC OR GAY.

HAVE YOU EVER HEARD A FRIEND SAY, " I WAS SO DRUNK LASTNIGHT" "I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID"..THIS USEALLY MEANS YOU DON'T WANT ANYONE TO KNOW WHAT YOU DID..

Anyone can lose their sexuality when they're drunk, and by the way:

hate gay peopleHow about "bigot" or "anti-homosexual"? There's a specific word for people who hate Jews...how about other groups?

Damien: I'd suggest that what you fear is not your gay friends, but the part of YOU that is gay, however little it may be. Contemporary society has so demonized the gay "lifestyle", that people learn to fear themselves. Coming to terms with the truth can liberate. Fighting it can cause aggressive behaviour toward gays. It's called gay bashing, and it more often than not reveals the struggle going on within. The conflict takes many forms, and we see them in every facet of life.Korydon

LMAO just what i was gonna say

I'll believe that, but, err, *feels stupid* what is DL ?;p

King was on Oprah Winfrey, talking about being on the "down low".

Thank you sir, now I understand

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Damien: I'd suggest that what you fear is not your gay friends, but the part of YOU that is gay, however little it may be. Contemporary society has so demonized the gay "lifestyle", that people learn to fear themselves. Coming to terms with the truth can liberate. Fighting it can cause aggressive behaviour toward gays. It's called gay bashing, and it more often than not reveals the struggle going on within. The conflict takes many forms, and we see them in every facet of life.

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Thanks for your effort, but you don't know me well enough to speculate and make such assertions. There are reasons for this fear, good bad or indifferent, and they have nothing to do with a supposed 'gay part of me'. Your argument is such the mantra, it's hardly even worth responding to. I understand the demonization and unfortunate aggressive behavior toward gays and lesbians, and I don't condone it.
My judgment is that it's a lot easier to take every difficulty everyone has and paint it with the same 'homophobic' brush and offer the same arguments against it instead of actually listening to what someone is saying and realizing it's something that maybe doesn't fit into your little 'homophobic' box.
I'll say it one more time...I don't hate gays and lesbians. Some of them I love dearly. I wish only the best for them. But there are things that I've experiened that have caused me to fear gay men. I'm not saying this is good or bad or whatever. It's just the way it is. There is no "truth" I need to come to terms with. I'm not in danger of hating or aggressive behavior. Your 'conflict' and 'struggle' do not apply. Why does everything come down to "If everyone would just acknolwedge the queer withing, the world we be a perfect place"?

Open your mind.

Thank you, Damien, for the clarification. Pardon me for presuming too much. I begin to see that there is more to it than the psychological, or, perhaps may we presume that the psychological "fear" of which you speak has a basis in experience?

I'm sure it's all very personal, so we needed go there. It's just that your hint seemed to want a response. I've seen too many people needlessly hurt when someone attempts to mask fears concerning their own inner self by attacking someone who is open. Obviously, you are coming from another place, entirely.

Though my oblique reference to Kinsey's sliding scale may not apply to this example, on the whole the concept remains quite valid, wouldn't you say?

Korydon

I'm not sure what your situation is, but if you fear gay men because they've hit on you, then you've experienced what women deal with, when they're hit on by someone they're not interested in. A simple, "Uh, I'm straight" usually does the trick...and is simpler than what a woman has to deal with ("Hmmm...I can't say 'Sorry, you're an ugly minger...what to say...what to say...'").To what korydon said: There have been an amazing number of anti-gay politicians (and priests) who've turned out to be closeted gays.

I've had one from a guy before. I was getting some sun on a fairly secluded beach. I prefer to be nude on the beach, so when circumstances don't allow I opt for thongs. The man came up to me and started a conversation. He told me there was a little area where it was safe to be nude, and invited me over for a beer. Conversation went every which way until he asked me if I was up for having some fun. I never tried it before so I said "Why not?" It was actually quite good. That was my limit at the moment, so I'm glad he didn't expect me to reciprocate. I've had four blowjobs from two other girls (two each), and the man was the only one to make me orgasm. It all boils down to understanding anatomy and experience. The girls both had the problem of grabbing too tightly and stroking downward, dry. Felt like my skin was ripping. Neither understood that the best part of a blowjob is the sucking and full enclosure of the mouth. They were confused when I said that just licking won't bring me to orgasm.As for the homophobic guys out there, get over yourselves. People have been sexually active with same-sex partners since before written history. Until westernization, it was a common occurrence in every culture. I have had oral sex from a man. Please explain to me with an intelligent argument just how that degrades me as a person.

Man... ugh... I'm sorry, I got nothin against people who do it... but I just find the act disgusting. I would be very surprised if I could even get an erection if a guy tried to suck me... just a major turn off. I don't care how good it feels, no guy is EVER touching me in a sexual way. I'd much rather have it done by a girl, and/or eat a girl out.

ive never gotten mine sucked by another guy,but if it happend i would go with it and im not gay or anything.I just want a blowjob bad. lol

Well being a gay male, yeah I've had oral sex from a guy hehe. Sorry tried to be funny.And I do want to point out to the "homophobic" men that posted. Honestly, if a guy hits on you and you don't appreciate it.. simple say "Sorry I'm straight" and that's all it takes. For the most part (theres always the exceptions of course) we won't be offended. Simply remember we are human too and just wanted to as such. Other than us loving someone of the same sex.. theres no differences between us.