Ok so me and my bf have been together for over 3 years now. He comes over my house most of the time, and he's really cool with my family. I spend some time at his house, and I have a good relationship with his parents, ~OR AT LEAST I THOUGHT I DID!~ Come to find out his parents have been talking hella shit about me behind my back. How childish, what are we like 3rd graders? I started to confront them, but that will only lead to more drama. I would really like for them to like me, but I feel like if they dont, oh well my world keeps on spinning! My real problem is that my boyfriend won't stand up for me. I care that his parents dont like me, but its not nearly as important as him letting them disrespect me. If my family spoke half as bad of him as they do of me, I wouldn't hesitate to tell them to keep their opinions to themselves. They dont have to like him, but they will respect him. I know they are his parents and all, but \*sighs\* I feel that he should say something......am I wrong? anybody ever been in a similar situation?
OMG THEY HATE ME
You are darn skippy you sense attitude from me! I dont appreciate being disrespected. His parents are spreading rumors about me. Thats just childish to me...
I've tried diplomacy, to no avail. If his parents dont like me, what can I do? I am who I am, and I'm not changing for anybody. I try to help their son, and they talk about me for it. I help him enroll in school, I help him get a license, I go with him when he opens his first bank account....and I'm stuck up? I think I'm "all that" because I am going to school full time and working? Its like they resent me because I'm taking their "baby" away. They want to control every aspect of his life.
This is the real world. They dont have to like me, and as I stated, my world isn't going to stop spinning just because they dont! My problem is that my boyfriend wont stand up for me.
I truly feel that no matter what my approach is, the situation is what it is. They have made up their mind about me, and thats ok with me. They laugh and smile in my face, then talk about me when I'm gone. Right now I have no desire to ever see/talk to them again, because whatever I say/do, can and will be used against me, lol.
Funny the word sarcastic comes to my mind. Disrespecting them, how?
well as im a teen and have many anger problems. i would of had many fits on them by now..if they talk as much shit as u say they do..they need to be realize u dont take shit from anyone..but bein that it is ur bfs parents i wouldnt say anything to them..just ignore them even if they speak to u..worse thing they could do is talk shit behind ur bak and then wen there around u they act like ur the best.. if they do that shove it in there face and not allow that. my opinon..but i am a complete twat..so forgive me for this useless info lol
Kill them with kindness. If that doesn't work, you're still the winner.