I think i might be bi

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Ok i have been having feelings for the boy for the pat two years and i can't get him out of my mind the thing is that he is just like me but hes straight and has his pic of girls and i have had fealing for other guys as well but there an other.Tthis girl that i like she knows i like like her an we flirt a lo t and we al most kissed . I have had these fealings ever since i was 12 i am 13 now could any one l help i am so confused

I couldn't understand most of that but.... are you a boy or a girl?

By his name im guessing he is a boy..

lol if he was a girl he wouldn't have said he has feelings towards another boy lolanyways, bud, it's normal to think of the same sex when your younger, it's all a part of growing up.

I konw that but i have realy strong fealings for him i can't get him out of my mind oh and there kind of the fact that i love gay porn

well if your gay/str8 or bi, as long as your happy with what ever you decide, is all that counts.

i agree with diver.you are what you are,thats who you are.

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Diver has said it beautifully: be who you are. Don't label yourself rigidly, though, because preferences can change in early teens.

I think there is nothing wrong with seeing the beauty in another person be it male or female. You are fine.

Yeah, I am 15 right now, soon to be 16 and I have strong feelings for members of the both sex, but it is mainly girls, but being bi means your more open minded and sexually more open, it doesn't matter who they are as long as they love you and you love them, there are no barriers, but sadly the whole marriage thing is not exactly in favor of same-sex marriage if you decide to become spiritually linked to your partner.Oh famous person who is a bi: Madonna (we all know how open she is)Being bi has many pluses, but you can keep it secret or be open about it.

Ur 13 and u have raging hormones. Are u bi? Maybe, may you grow up to be gay? Maybe, will these feelings pass and u will only be interested in females? Maybe! The only thing that matters which a wise man once said was your happiness.

but puberty is when your feelings are becoming stronger, they don't usually change but there is a short period or phase of questioning, but bi's usually experience stronger feelings then those who are merely questioning themselves, also many guys will deny these feelings if asked by friends, but you can never be 100% sure if your bi or not until later on in life.

I am 14 now just at the tail ebd of puberty , and I think I can relate to what you have to say. I definitly liked girls, but in the back of my head I wondered what it would be like being with a guy , and pretty much made the decision I wouldn't mind being with one if the time ever occured. Well I couldnt get it out of my head , and I figured the only way to figure out was to see. My friend and I are both straight , but we wack together sometimes. So one night when he was over and we were both looking at porn , getting really horny I said hey you know , have you ever been with anyone else , he said no , i said no , and I was like I wonder what it would be like to have someone whack you off , or to be sucked and he was like yeah that would be pretty cool , so we joked around about it for a while , and I said yeah maybe we should try it , Im not gay , I just want to know what its like , hes like yeah same here , so we wacked each other off and sucked a little later - it was good. We did it a couple more times because it really was good. But after a while the newness faided away , and I came out of it knowing that I definitly liked girls better. We are both still friends and both have good relationships with girls. SO in my opinion , its okay to experiment with both sexes , and even if you are gay or bi , it dosent matter as long as its good for you. If you want to try stuff out with pat , just be subtle and go with the flow. Hoped my example helped a little.

the bi phase is compulsory for all 14-17 year olds i think. if you must decide what you are (straight, bi, gay) then do it later on in life. Me, (gods, yet another post where i turn everything to me) i dont like to limit myself in any way. if ive got to typecast myself as one im probably bi. but then im also 17 and it may be the end of my phase grins

The Bi- phase is compulsory??? Something you need to decide to be??? Sorry for putting it bluntly but that's BS.

I think by "compulsory" CaughtMyFancy meant "happens to everyone" (he is using just a little hyperbole); and, as I understand it, he was not talking about deciding to be a particular sexuality, but deciding what label to put on yourself.

grins my bad. get used to hyper bole in my posts. finding words that actually mean what i mean is impossible so i twist the words to suit my purpose. unfortunately, unless you can actually think in exactly the same mindset as me then you will probably just get confused. cant say i will be able to stop it, as most of the time i dont even notice im doing it

Ahh OK. I read that early in the morning and the cobwebs weren't out of my head yet.

Well now that i no what ur post means i'll reply lol. I agree with you it probably happens to everyone in some way sometime throught there life. Hormone's raging, people just using the word 'faggot' as an insult may make some people stop and think "omg am I?" Another thing people tend not to understand is just because they thought they made a decision during these early years of life that they have to stick with it. That is why labels are so unnecessary especially before teenage years are over. I'm 17 and have experienced a full fledged gay relationship. Of course I will always love him and he will be known as that first love, but that doesn't mean that is the path i have to take at all ya know. People are too uptight when it comes to sexual preference.