Boner for an hour

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...blue balls...?

Hate to burst the bubble guys, but diabetics have more trouble getting a hardon than having one for a long time. I am a type one diabetic and use an insulin pump. I am only 46 but have been totally impotent for several years. I would give anything to have a hardon for just a few minutes. An hour would be an unbelievable experince. I just miss the good old day when I got hard at the drop of a hat and cold polk the littly guy anywhere I wanted to.Don't think that being a diabetic will give you a super long lived erection. You could end up like me totally limp.

I'm sorry to hear that smallone. When you say totally impotent, does that mean the involuntary nocturnal erections and morning wood go away too? Do you still get any of these kinds of erections? Are you able to orgasm and ejaculate at all?

Focus, Nope, none of the above. I can get it up for about 30 seconds every few days. Then it just deflates. If I play with it enough, I can ejaculate but it is just cumming for the sake of cumming. Not really fun.The problem is a combination of neuropathy and poor blood flow to the penis. Both are caused by diabetes.Take care of yourself. This is an awful disease to have.J

We were joking about surgical implants earlier in the thread, but it's no joke. Is that a possibility, or would there be a higher risk of complications in your case?

I read the comments about the implant and that is what got me to post the first reply. An implant is definatly an option. I am just not sure that I am ready to do that. There is a website that shows a video of a doctor doing the implant. They open your penis and insert the hardware. That was way more information than I needed. I am just not sure that I want all that hardware in me. I told the doctor that I am not at a point in life that I want to become the bionic dick. With the implant, you just pump yourself up and you are ready anytime. I wonder if it takes away part of the emotion of lovemaking. Getting your partner to turn you on seems to be a big part to me. I like my wife doing things that excite me. Where it the excitement when you just press on a pump and have an instant hardon that lasts as long as you want. You can have one for hours if you want. I read that one guy keeps it partially inflated all the time to make his penis look bigger in the shower and make his package look larger in clothes.Just seems wierd to me.J

Do you get any wet dreams or spontaneous ejaculations, due to build up of semen from lack of ejaculations? You mentioned you can cum, but I'm not sure how often you do it, considering its not very pleasurable.

A lot of the negatives you mentioned seem kind of positive. And any surgical proceedure looks pretty nasty if you're not used to seeing that kind of thing.

I would bet that your significant other would not mind missing out on seeing the erection happen, in the scheme of things. In any case, you really need to talk it over with her if you haven't already.

And isn't there a type of implant that's not attached to a pump?

I'm not trying to say "go out and get one now". I'm just trying to encourage you not to discount the idea out of hand.