ok im a new member and i need sum advice. Plz dont laugh, cuz it seems to me like my problem isnt normal. Ok i have a fear of sticking ne thing in my vagina, i cant even use tampons cuz im to scare to This is prolly the weirdest thing u have ever heard in ur life and i dont know why i'm afraid..i jus cant bring myself to do it...this is embarassing so plz b nice, im so confused plz help!
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Idk wut to do
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I've never heard of a girl being afraid but I dont think it's wierd. How old are you?
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i just turned 16 :confused:
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all i gotta say is, get 'er done.
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get 'er done?..thanx ur a big help. This was a bad idea
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What makes it scary to you?
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i really dont know..i get really mad because i just cant do it. And the thought of putting my finger in my vagina just grosses me out. Im jus a real chicken, my mind jus wont let my hand do it. i'm not worried about sex though because i will have sumone to do it for me u know and the feelings will b much stronger. If any of that makes sense.
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Mind over matter...just tell yourself you'll be fine. It's your own body, it shouldn't gross you out.
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yea i guess...thanx that's an answer i was lookin for, not "get 'er done"
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hahaha...what it is just an oversimplified version of what was just said. keep things simple. You just gotta do it, conquer your fear, get er done.
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ok right when you read this post, i want you to stick your hand down your pants and finger yourself for a while...you will like it once you get used to the feeling...I dont know how you could go through life without masturbating. Seriously do that and if you are afraid you will drop your hand in your vagina, attach a string to it.
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lmfao attach a string
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oh haha he has jokes
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In reply to:oh haha he has jokes Lighten up a bit, it was just a joke. But the best advice I can give you is to work towards it. Start with playing with your nipples then after your ready start rubbing your clit then rub you lips then when your ready just start fingering yourself. Can you touch your clit?
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i did it. It was nothing great and i felt really dirty afterwards :confused:
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Most woman have orgasms with clitoral stimulation so it doesnt suprise me. But atleast you did, good job :laughing:
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It made me sick to my stomach..is that normal?!?
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Was the rest pleasurable, though? When I first masturbated I felt sick to my stomach but the rest felt good.
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not really...maybe i was jus to tense?!?...i have a bf and i would like him to finger me but he wont bcuz he cares about me and he wants us to wait b4 we get sexually active and he said that him fingering me would jus make it harder for him uugh idk
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Yea, could have just been tense. But I'm not sure, maybe if a female posts she'll be able to help you more.Yay, I got 200 posts.