Hi everybody, just got an account even though I've been browsing for a while... Anyways on to my question.I've never had sex, or even felt a girl up and all that good stuff. I'm 16 and tonight might be my first time having sex. Only problem is, I'm so inexperienced that I don't know if I'm gonna be able to please her or not. Just wondering if anybody had any tips on what I could/should do. I always hear stuff like "It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion in the ocean" or something like that... So any tips/advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
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A little nervous
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You're having sex for the first time tonight? How do you know this?
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Let me say from experience that because you felt her up means nothing...
Feeling up is the first step in a LONG road to sex. unless without offence intended this girl is a slut of some kind...
Also, if she is so experienced that you are worried about impressing her, i think you are with the wrong girl.
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Well I'm pretty sure that it's gonna happen because she says she wants to tonight. But anyways, it's not that she's so experienced, it's that I'm so inexperienced. It doesn't matter who I'm with, I'd be worrying about pleasing any woman.
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Thats so sweet... but stupid! Sex is all about the man! You must have the pleasure, she can be happy with the child. Its the way things are supposed to be.
Well, no, just do what ever feels natural, but before you do anything you have to complete the check list:
1\. Have you got a condom?
2\. Have you got a spare condom?
3\. Have you got lube? She might be a tight girl.
4\. Are you ready to have sex? Not just physically, but emotionally as well. -
He said he didn't feel her up. The plan is to go from zero to full sex in one night. Sounds like a recipe for disaster, if the relationship has any importance.
If you hope to have a longer-term relationship, I'd take it more slowly. If you insist on doing it, then be sure to use protection. If you find yourself without a condom or some such thing, DON'T DO IT!
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Yeah, but I'm a lover... Gotta please my lady ya know? Keep her wanting more lol. On to the check.1. Yes2. Yes, indeed.3. Ooh, no I don't. She might... I didn't think about that.4. Definitely; I'm really mature (emotionally) for my age. I understand that sex is not just about fun, but it brings about a bond with a person.
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but it brings about a bond with a person.
NO, NO, and NO....if there isn't a bond to begin with, sex wont magically create one.
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Yep, sex is what you do after you create the bond.
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Maybe I didn't word that correctly... It enhances the bond, how about that. Since it is a pretty big step for a person with an already created bond, it can strengthen and enhance the bond.
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But the bond has to be there. How about this, tonight you go out with her, you mess around and all, do what ever you like, but don't have sex. When she asks you to do it with her just say that you're not sure if you're ready. Just see how she reacts. If she is as inexperienced as you then she will be just as nervous and may be glad that you decided not to.
But if she looks at you weird and you want to do it with her anyway, just say "Are you kiddin'!!!" and pound her ass through the matress. :grin:
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Haha yeah, I think I'll try that. I enjoy option two a little bit more though!
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Dude, just relax and enjoy yourself. Take you your time and explore all of her and she'll also enjoy herself. Knock yourself out.
