im male
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No Strings Attached?
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Appreciate the advice...I'll give it a shot.I'll tell you though, the girl has the stuff. Boy oh boy...
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no problem anytime, this board is great, i've been on here for about 3 months maybe and its good, giving all kinds of advices and help. Make sure u visit once in a while and let me know how it turns out with that girl with stuff lol
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It's like a book. Two thumbs up.
I'd just ask straight out. All you have to lose is time. Time that could be spent having sex. heheh. I'm not much of a one-night-stand guy myself, but whatever floats you're boat. Make sure you keep it a "no strings" relationship. It'll be bad if you become really attached and all of a sudden she's gone. Chicks are like drugs man. Get hooked and it's a b!tc# to stop.
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yeah, there is always that risk.
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I think we can rule that out, because we've already dealt with the fact that she will be gone in 2 months. Both of us have agreed that a serious long term relationship is not going to happen. It was hard on both of us at first, we went through the heartache stage together and since then we have accepted the fact that we will not be together much longer. With that in mind, why can't we continue to have great sex together without the feelings of attachment, knowing that we will not be together in the future? Purely a sexual thing, nothing more. When she leaves, she's gone for good. Find another partner. I'm not worried about this part...What I'm worried about is my approach and the way I ask her. Part of me thinks she couldn't pass it up. It's great sex with someone you are comfortable with and trust. The other part of me thinks she might be offended because she might think that I think she is a slut by having sex with no committment. Any additional advice from anyone? Hopefully from someone who has been in this position before?
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If your comfortable with her all you really have to is just ask. Ask like you'd ask her if she'd like a cup of tea. Don't make a big deal about the fact, if she likes sex and if shes gonna be down oftenish then a quick stop round yours for a bit of lovin before she goes see her gran or summit mite just be what the doctor ordered.Basically you want her to be a Fuck Buddy aren't you
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Precisely. Except maintain a friendship. I would still do anything for her. Talk to her when she felt down, take her to dinner when she wasn't busy, tell her she's sexy as hell, etc....Usually when I think of a fuck buddy, I think of a guy using a girl for sex until he completely drops her. In this case, both parties are aware that it's just sex and both parties are completely fine with that. She's coming over tonight, so it'll be a good opportunity to ask her. I'll keep everyone filled in.
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I had that with one of my exes. It's a really good thing as long as you do one thing. AS SOON AS there's a new interest in either of your lives, cut it off. I found out after the fact that the last time I made out with my ex he'd already started dating this other chick long-distance. It caused a huge rift in our friendship. But keep the communication open and I think she'd be up for it!
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my mate did this with her babys dads they had been broken up for months but still sleeping together. She alwasy said to me he might get bk with me but well now she has ended up pregnant and he wants nothing more to do with her.