Ok im posting this here and in teen life cuz im not sure where to put it. Im always feeling empty and alone like no one cares or understands. One of the guys i like makes me so happy and doesnt make me so depressed anymore and i love that. I really like him, I may even love him but im too nervous to say. He comes up with the cornyest lines like 'You know if you lived by me my life would be complete' and i like that cuz it makes me feel good. I think he may like me but there really isnt a chance for us because we live in to different countrys and we arent old enough to move or anything and i have no clue wut to do or anything. Im really confused right now.
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Help me
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You could tell him how you feel, and if he says he feels the same way, then you can have a long distance relationship. A friend of mine has had an online boyfriend for over a year and it is still very strong!
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this wus supposed to read 'and in depression' sry its cuz i copy and pasted
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yes, long distance relationships def do work. they may be hard at first but you just have to keep in touch and work at it, talk alot on the phone and really get to know eachother. as for the fact that you feel alone and that no1 cares- i think most teens go through that stage, i know i def did, but trust me, people do care about you, youre not alone. You'll realize how much you can mean to just one person, even if you may not know it right now. So just hang in there, things will get so much more easier :smile:
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yeah, I know how that feels.I had an eating disorder for two years and just felt empty, dead, and numb inside. Then I started dating my current boyfriend and he helped me with my problems. The main thing is that you have problems and you have to address and fix your problems for yourself. A guy can't solve all the problems in your life becuase when he isn't there you'll relapse and feel even worse.So yes, I think you should talk to him and see if ya'll feel the same way, but a guy isn't the answer to your personal problems, he can help but eventually you'll have to fix them yourself. good luck.
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In reply to: You could tell him how you feel, and if he says he feels the same way, then you can have a long distance relationship. A friend of mine has had an online boyfriend for over a year and it is still very strong! that's impossible, women don't know how to keep their legs closed if their boyfriend isn't there daily sticking it to them!
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you are a sshole and thats not true so FOD(fuck off and die, for thoseof you who dont kno wut that means)
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wut r u on aboot? yo, bettah listen to mah words cause i got the stash yo...learn how to type you freak. and what is a 'sshole'?
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sry its a fucking type-o
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First and foremost, no one who spells "about" with two O's should be allowed to criticize spelling.Secondly, I believe that it is very important for you (ImNotAGuy) to focus on healing yourself first before entering a relationship. From what I understand, a huge reason why you like him is because he makes you feel good inside and better about yourself. He sounds like a great guy, but you should feel these things about yourself way before he or anyone tells you. Him making you feel good shouldn't be what you need, it should be what you already have. While you may feel better and more understood with him now, if things don't work out between you two, you will probably end up feeling even worse than you did before you met. Developing a strong love for yourself will cause you to be less dependent on him and may help any future long-distance relationships with him work out.
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Sorry, I forgot to mention this:A very wise old woman (Oprah Winfrey) once said that "doubt means 'no'", so maybe you can apply that to whether you love this guy or not. If theres any doubt in your mind what-so-ever as to if you love him, then chances are you don't and for now it's just infatuation. I thought maybe this would help you decide what to do.
